proverb · Words worth keeping
He goes a-sorrowing, who goes a-borrowing.
He goes a-sorrowing, who goes a-borrowing.
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Borrowing can bring obligations or difficulties after the initial benefit. Understand the arrangement before accepting it rather than treating temporary access as though nothing will later be required.
Example
A reading group confirms when borrowed display materials must be returned and plans its event around that date, avoiding an assumption that access will continue indefinitely.
Deeper explanation and when to use it
The proverb connects borrowing with sorrow, using a strong warning about what may follow. Returning an item, meeting a deadline or coping with changed needs can complicate an arrangement that first seemed helpful. The wording does not prove that every borrower will regret the decision or that asking for support is shameful. Borrowing can enable useful shared activity when expectations are clear. The practical lesson is to consider the whole arrangement, including what happens if the item is unavailable or plans change, rather than judge it only by the immediate relief it provides.
When to use it
Use it cautiously to consider obligations attached to temporary access or support.
Keep in mind
Borrowing is not inherently shameful or regrettable; this interpretation is not individual financial guidance.
An interpretation of the words, not a claim about their earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Date unknown
- Culture
- English