01UndatedThe calligraphy reads, “Pointing directly at your own heart, you find Buddha.” Listening to talks about the dharma, or the teachings of Buddha, or practicing meditation is nothing other than studying ourselves.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
02UndatedMany religions have meditations on death to let it penetrate our thick skulls that life doesn’t last forever.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
03UndatedIn sitting meditation, we train in mindfulness and unconditional friendliness: in being steadfast with our bodies, our emotions, our thoughts.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
04UndatedMeditation practice isn’t about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
05UndatedEven though there are so many teachings, so many meditations, so many instructions, the basic point of it all is just to learn to be extremely honest and also wholehearted about what exists in your mind - thoughts, emotions bodily sensations, the whole thing that adds up to what we call "me" or "I".Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
06UndatedIn sitting meditation, our practice is to watch our thoughts arise, label them "thinking", and return to the breath.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
07UndatedThis meditation is called nontheistic, which doesn't have anything to do with believing in God or not believing in God, but means that nobody but yourself can tell you what to accept and what to reject.The practice of meditation helps us to get to know this basic energy really well, with tremendous honesty and warmheartedness, and we begin to figure out for ourselves what is poison and what is medicin, which means something different for each of us.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
08UndatedIn his talk, Suzuki Roshi says that meditation and the whole process of finding your own true nature is one continuous mistake, and that rather than that being a reason for depression or discouragement, it's actually the motivation.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
09UndatedIt's helpful to always remind yourself that meditation is about opening and relaxing withwhatever arises, without picking and choosing.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
11UndatedSitting meditation gives us a way to move closer to our thoughts and emotions and to get in touch with our bodies.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
12UndatedMeditation practice is how we discover basic goodness and learn to cultivate bodhichitta. With this view, practice, and activity, even the most mundane situation becomes a vehicle for awakening.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
13UndatedYesterday I talked about cultivating precision, gentleness, and openess, and described how the meditation technique helps us to remember the qualities that we already possess.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
14UndatedIf the object of meditation were something concrete, something solid and graspable - an image or a statue or a dot on the floor or a candle - it would be much more of a concentration exercise. But the breath is very elusive; even if you wanted to give it one hundred percent attention, it would be difficult because it is so ephemeral, so light, so airy and spacious. As the object of meditation, it brings a sense of softness and gentleness.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
15UndatedIf we emphasized only precision, our meditation might become quite harsh and militant. (...). One thing that is very helpful is to cultivate an overall sense of relaxation while you are doing the meditation.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
16UndatedThe meditation technique itself cultivate precision, gentleness, and the ability to let go - qualities that are innate within us.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
17UndatedMeditation is about seeing clearly the body that we have, the mind that we have, the domestic situation that we have, the job that we have, and the people who are in our lives.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
18UndatedOne of the main discoveries of meditation is seeing how we continually run away from the present moment, how we avoid being here just as we are.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
19UndatedIt's very helpful to realize that being here, sitting in meditation, doing simple everyday things like working, walking outside, talking with people, bathing, using the toilet, and eating, is actually all that we need to be fully awake, fully alive, fully human.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
20UndatedWhile we are sitting in meditation, we are simply exploring humanity and all of creation in the form of ourselves.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
21UndatedThe path of meditation and the path of our lives altogether ha to do with curiosity, inquisitiveness.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
22UndatedWe're here to get to know and study ourselves. The path, the way to do that, our main vehicle, is going to be meditation, and some sense of general wakefulness.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
23UndatedMeditation is a process of lightening up, of trusting the basic goodness of what we have and who we are, and of realizing that any wisdom that exists, exists in what we already have.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗
24UndatedWe don't have to be harsh with ourselves when we think, sitting here, that our meditation or our oryoki or the way we are in the world is in the category of worst horse.Pema Chödrön / quote ↗