01UndatedFear, anxiety, arousal, and pain; all are emotions and sensations. They are neither right, nor are they wrong; good nor bad. They are simply passions, a most important part of life. Feel them, fully experience them, surrender to them, and learn to accept them. As a submissive, you must let go. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
02UndatedMmmm I like the sounds you're making," he murmured in a honeyed whisper. "I just bet that you're a screamer. Should I have brought earplugs?Kurt NielsenNikki Sex / quote ↗
03UndatedSex is an act of pleasure and an expression of love. How better to communicate one’s deepest feelings than without the clumsy use of words? — André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
04UndatedGood sex requires further exposure than simply removing one’s clothes. And as for a good relationship? Ah! For this one must be prepared to reveal even more.” — André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
05UndatedA philosophical discussion ensued about right and wrong, and good and bad. Also about things to be ashamed of and things to be feel guilty about. Could anything carried out between two consensual adults be wrong? And why should they be embarrassed by something a loving partner wanted to try? Right then they made a pact to never lie to each other, and to live out their sexual fantasies together. If two intelligent, loving and happily married people couldn't be honest with each other about their most hidden sexual desires, then who could?Nikki Sex / quote ↗
06UndatedI am a good lover, but that is not so difficult. It requires only that I pay attention, and watch and listen to a woman and her body." André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
07UndatedI was craving a chance at the lifelong fantasy, and I had that. That was a one-off thing. I was looking for an experience, Eric, not wanting to cultivate a habit.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
08UndatedIt was an obsession, it was a compulsion. "The way to banish temptation is to give into it," the saying went. Maybe if she experienced a gangbang, it wouldn't be such a big deal, and would no longer be the focus of her sexual imagination.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
09UndatedA child, without toxic interference, will naturally become the person they are meant to be. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
11UndatedThe child, through no fault of its own, and through the very nature of being a child, is egocentric and self-absorbed. Thus, if the daughter does not make her bed, and the mother yells, and the father beats the mother – then the daughter believes all that happened is her fault. Why? Because she did not make the bed, do you see? André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
12UndatedI have found that sometimes when a person gives up on 'humankind' they can often find trust and love in animal kind. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
13UndatedFind one person to trust—there need only be one. With them, share every shame, every secret and listen to theirs… with love. Bare hearts and souls until there is understanding. Of a certainty, such honest exposure is the first step toward happiness. — André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
14UndatedI love the passions. They create such sensation! Anger, grief, fear, love, hate, excitement. The fierce emotions make one feel. Such are a gift, so one knows one is alive. To live without passion is to have no life at all.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
15UndatedEducating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
16UndatedLife's most obvious truths are the hardest to see but once you've burned everything to the ground they are the only things left standing.André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
17UndatedAbuse? Ah. Such problems, even with time, do not go away on their own. They must be addressed. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
18UndatedMostly, it is lies that will destroy a relationship. Deceit is a barrier to intimacy. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
19UndatedThe "Fatal Female Flaw." It's when ordinarily sensible women fall madly in love with an unattainable man who can't or won't love them back. I also call it the Triple Fucked Factor.RosslynNikki Sex / quote ↗
20UndatedThe actions and emotional responses of others are not your responsibility. You cannot rescue people from themselves. This is for them to do. — André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
21UndatedIn life I would much prefer to be sinned upon than the sinner. It is easier, vous comprenez? With the clear conscience one sleeps very well. The sinner may deny it… but in his heart he knows. He does not deserve to be happy.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
22UndatedMen? They are simple creatures. Is there something wrong with your man? Feed him, and take him to your bed. Et Voila! All problems, they disappear. But if something is wrong with the woman? Je suis désolé. Women need to talk.– André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
23UndatedWhat has been done to you is one thing. Yet to really suffer, to truly be burdened with guilt and shame, such pain always begins not with what has been done to you—but with what you have done. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
24UndatedAbuse is a parasite that feeds off hate and shame, growing in size and strength with silence.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
