01UndatedDenial can be a most useful, temporary shield. Unfortunately, such flimsy armor will not last a lifetime. It is best to face your past, and do so quickly, before your past returns to face you.”— André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
02UndatedStrange how mean words can return to ones thoughts, years after they’ve been callously thrown at you. They replay in your mind, spiking a sense of remembered pain. Nasty name calling can be an ugly memory that stabs unexpectedly—not unlike a nightmare where you wake up crying. Sticks and stones, may break your bones—yet, cruel names can hurt you.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
03UndatedThe patterns learned as a child, repeat as an adult. Those with an abusive childhood are very often oh-so blind to this inescapable truth.— André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
04UndatedFacing one’s past can be a perilous activity. For the client, joy must exceed misery. Personal successes must far outweigh losses. Pleasure must exceed pain. Always. Always. To do otherwise is a failure of the counselor.— André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
05UndatedLike icebergs, people normally expose only a small part of themselves, and generally just the part they wish to show.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
06UndatedBehave," Kurt said, and slapped her buttocks. "Didn't I tell you to be still? Your job is to focus on my will and let me use your body. It's here for my pleasure, remember?Nikki Sex / quote ↗
07UndatedWhen you say, ‘Women are untrustworthy bitches. They lie and cheat and will nail anything that moves.’ Do you know what I hear from your lips? Listen now, for I shall tell you. I hear you speak these words: 'I am an untrustworthy bastard. I lie and cheat and nail anything that moves.' André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
08UndatedA person tends to believe whatever is repeated over and over, whether it is true or not.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
09UndatedSome truths can be only be found when one looks with the heart, not the eyes.” – André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
10UndatedBDSM is like visiting a kinky Amusement Park. Once you pay the entry fee, you hop on an erotic roller coaster of deviant self-discovery. Although I have the threat of pain before me, I’m not even close to wanting to get off of this ride. It’s such a fucking thrill. Or is that a thrilling fuck? Whatever. Either way, it’s as hot as hell.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
11UndatedPain is not the most important tool in Dominance and submission, yet it is a most worthy tool. Pain breaks down barriers and defences. And for intensifying the orgasm? There are few superior devices a Dom has to achieve such, other than varying degrees of pain.Nikki Sex / quote ↗
12UndatedYes, she fears the cuffs, the cross and the whip, but she will get past this. Such problems, even with time, do not go away on their own. They must be addressed.André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗
13UndatedPleasure, pleasure, pleasure! Always your goal is pleasure. Pain, yes of course! Yet pain must only be used as a means to add to your sub's sensation of pleasure. To do otherwise is un péché noir - a black sin. Such will tarnish the soul. André ChevalierNikki Sex / quote ↗