proverb · Words worth keeping
In vain he craves advice who will not follow it.
In vain he craves advice who will not follow it.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
Asking for advice achieves little if someone refuses to consider using it. The saying questions the purpose of the request, while leaving room to examine advice critically and reject recommendations that are unsuitable or wrong.
What the words are saying
The person craves advice but will not follow it, creating a gap between seeking guidance and allowing it to influence action. The proverb may describe a request made for reassurance rather than a willingness to consider change. Its useful question is whether the listener is engaging with the suggestion and what stands in the way of applying it. Following advice is not automatically wise: a recommendation may lack relevant information, conflict with a valid responsibility or need adaptation. A thoughtful response can explain those limits or ask for a better option. The point is meaningful consideration, not obedience to whoever offers an opinion.
Everyday example
A novice organiser asks how to make a timetable workable, then discusses why one suggestion cannot fit the venue instead of ignoring every recommendation without explanation.
When to use it
Use it when clarifying whether someone wants actionable guidance, reassurance or a discussion of options.
What it does not mean
Advice deserves assessment; declining a poor recommendation is different from refusing to consider guidance.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 10 · Advice
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