proverb · Source-linked selection
If you play with a fool at home, he'll play with you in the market.
If you play with a fool at home, he'll play with you in the market.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
Conduct tolerated privately may be repeated publicly. The saying warns that an informal pattern can carry into a setting where its consequences are less welcome.
What the words are saying
The movement from home to market changes the audience while leaving the behaviour familiar. It can encourage clarity when teasing, pranks or casual talk could become embarrassing outside their original setting. Calling someone a fool is not needed to retain this insight. A useful reading considers what expectations have been established and discusses boundaries directly rather than assuming the other person understands an unspoken rule.
Everyday example
Friends who joke freely in private agree that a personal joke should not be repeated at a public gathering.
When to use it
Use it to discuss the boundaries of behaviour across private and public settings.
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What it does not mean
Past tolerance is not permanent consent, and an insulting label does not explain someone’s conduct.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1258 · Play
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