Give neither advice nor salt until you are asked for it.

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Meaning in plain English

Unrequested advice can be as unwelcome as altering someone’s food without asking. Check whether help is wanted before assuming you know what another person needs.

What the words are saying

The comparison pairs advice with salt because both can be added with good intentions yet spoil the recipient’s experience when they are not wanted. The proverb encourages permission and attention to preference. A listener may want understanding rather than a solution, just as a diner may already find the dish suitable. Asking creates room for the other person to say what would help. The wording is deliberately strict, but ordinary life includes occasions when a timely warning is appropriate. Its useful focus is respectful support rather than a rule against speaking up about an immediate problem.

Everyday example

A friend listening to a difficult work story asks whether the speaker wants suggestions or simply someone to hear what happened.

When to use it

Use it when offering advice about a decision that belongs to someone else.

Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.