Every one as they like best, as the good man said when he kissed his cow.

Understand the thought

Meaning in plain English

Preferences can differ in ways that another person finds surprising. The comic cow-kissing example makes that variety conspicuous, without claiming every preferred action is harmless or that preference settles a shared disagreement.

What the words are saying

The person in the saying offers an unusual action as an example of liking something best. A useful reading recognises that another person may value a style, activity or arrangement that does not appeal to the observer. Surprise alone is not a reason to ridicule that choice. The comparison is humorous rather than a general instruction about animals or intimate conduct. Preferences still have consequences, and a shared decision may need to consider consent, responsibilities and other people’s needs. The proverb can make room for harmless difference while preserving the distinction between a private liking and an action that affects others.

Everyday example

Two readers choose different formats for the same book and accept the difference without insisting that the other must enjoy their preferred edition.

When to use it

Use it when a harmless difference in taste is being mistaken for a fault.

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Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.