proverb · Words worth keeping
Better to be beaten than be in bad company.
Better to be beaten than be in bad company.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
Harmful company can be worse than an unpleasant immediate setback. The saying warns against relationships that repeatedly lead someone into trouble, but its comparison does not justify violence or abuse.
What the words are saying
The proverb makes a deliberately harsh comparison between being beaten and keeping bad company. Its force lies in the suggestion that companions can cause damage that continues long after a single painful event. A practical reading asks whether a group encourages cruelty, dishonesty or choices a person regrets. The wording must not become advice to accept physical harm, nor an excuse to label people bad because of social prejudice. What matters is observed conduct and its effects. Supportive alternatives and clear boundaries are more useful responses than punishment, isolation or a blanket judgment about someone’s worth.
Everyday example
A student leaves a group that pressures them to humiliate classmates, despite losing a social invitation.
When to use it
Use it when companionship repeatedly encourages harmful conduct.
What it does not mean
The comparison does not excuse violence, abuse or prejudiced exclusion.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
No sufficiently supported historical placement has been established. Import and download dates are not treated as composition dates. - Recorded source
- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 84 · Beaten
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