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Bachelors grin, but married men laugh till their hearts ache.
Bachelors grin, but married men laugh till their hearts ache.
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Meaning in plain English
The saying gives married men a more intense laugh than bachelors, extending it until their hearts ache. The apparent praise carries a possible hint of pain.
What the words are saying
Grinning is contrasted with laughing to an extreme. Without a supplied setting, the aching heart leaves room for exuberance or a joke about marriage’s difficulties. A responsible reading keeps that ambiguity rather than claiming marriage necessarily makes people happy or miserable. It can start a conversation about the mixed experiences concealed by a cheerful appearance.
Everyday example
Friends notice that a joking account of married life contains affection and frustration, and let the speaker explain rather than decide the meaning for him.
When to use it
Use it to discuss an ambiguous joke about relationship experience.
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What it does not mean
It is not a universal comparison of married and unmarried people.
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Attribution & collection notes
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- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 51 · Bachelors
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