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An unhappy lad may make a good man.
A troubled beginning need not prevent a person from developing good judgment and conduct. The saying leaves room for growth beyond an early label.
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A troubled beginning need not prevent a person from developing good judgment and conduct. The saying leaves room for growth beyond an early label.
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The saying praises allowing anger to pass rather than keeping a grievance alive. Its moral judgement is too simple: lasting anger does not by itself show that someone lacks good character.
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People who act from anger may find that trouble follows. Want here concerns lacking trouble, so the saying warns that angry reactions can supply plenty of it without making the emotion itself a moral failure.
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The saying dismisses routine talk about changing weather as an easy substitute for substance. Its insult should not be mistaken for a fair judgment of every casual conversation.
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The phrase values avoiding conflict so strongly that it offers almost any concession for peace. A careful reading asks whether the concession creates a workable calm or leaves an important problem unaddressed.
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A pleasant covering may make something disagreeable easier to accept. The sweetened pill represents how presentation can soften a difficult message, while raising the question of whether the underlying substance remains clear.
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The saying treats apples, eggs and nuts as acceptable after someone it calls a slut. It uses a demeaning label while making an unverified claim about food handled by another person.
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The saying treats April and May as decisive months for what the rest of the year will yield. Keys picture their conditions as opening or closing later possibilities.
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A few unpleasant April days are imagined as borrowed from March. The months are personified to describe weather that seems out of place in the new season.
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A person quick to make assurances may also fail to remember or fulfil them. The saying warns against relying on readiness to promise alone, without making enthusiasm proof of unreliability.
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The saying contrasts an Argus-like watcher at home with a mole abroad. It pictures someone sharply observant in familiar surroundings but much less perceptive elsewhere.
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Powerful resources need capable and responsible handling. Arms and money put means with serious consequences beside the hands that decide how to use them.
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An unsuccessful effort can seem no better than doing nothing. The saying voices that discouragement, while inviting a closer look at what an attempt may still teach.
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The saying exaggerates how exclusion can feel when someone is out of fashion. It reveals the pressure of belonging to a social trend, rather than establishing that conformity is necessary for a worthwhile life or that older tastes have no value.
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The saying regards twenty as no worse than nineteen. It suggests that a small additional amount may make little difference in a situation already being considered.
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The saying compares a woman’s tears with a goose’s bare feet, making her distress seem ordinary or unworthy of sympathy. It expresses dismissiveness, not a reason to disregard someone’s feelings.
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The saying compares vitality with youth and freedom from obligations with wealth. It shifts attention from labels and possessions to conditions that can make life feel less burdened, without promising that health or debt determines anyone’s worth.
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Two things may be very different despite being put together in a comparison. Chalk and cheese give the difference a vivid form, encouraging attention to relevant distinctions without deciding that comparison is always useless.
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Enjoying life need not be treated as less serious or worthwhile than sorrow. The saying refuses to give sadness a privileged place in how a life is valued.
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A person may hear their own expectations in an ambiguous signal. Check whether an interpretation comes from the evidence or from what you already want to believe.
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The saying treats Friday as a sign of Sunday and Sunday as a sign of the whole week. It extends a short observation into a much longer expectation.
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People may copy the habits and manner of those they observe. Those setting an example should consider what their conduct invites others to repeat.
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Early influences may leave a lasting direction in someone’s habits. The inclined tree develops the bent-twig image, without proving that a person cannot change or that upbringing explains every later choice.
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A person or event is warmly welcomed as a pleasing arrival. May flowers give the welcome an image of freshness and delight.
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