01UndatedHow can we expect the world to change if we are unwilling to change ourselves? We hate the haters, judge the judgers, and refuse to forgive the supposed unforgivable. We are hypocrites, most of us, comfortable condemning others for the same things we do. Like sheep we follow, like wolves we attack, like fools we listen to the loudest voices, even when they scream nothing but hate. We are lost in our desire to be like everyone else, and paralyzed in our fear to be ourselves. We are desperate to feel safe amidst our cries for retaliation and more wars. Where is the common sense? If we want to end war, then be peaceful. If we want to know love, then stop hating. if we want to find happiness, then let go of negativity, and befriend gratitude. real change isn’t born from making the same choices over and over, especially choices muddied with insecurity and fear. we can’t wrest ourselves from darkness by turning out our light. everything just gets darker then. Let's worry less about changing the world and more about changing ourselves. That, we can do, each one of us. With commitment and work. And a single candle does wonders in even the darkest of nights.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
02Undatedthere are no quick fixes. If we want our lives to change, we have to do the work.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
04UndatedThe only way to free yourself from all the anxiety you’re feeling about the difficult conversation you know you need to have is by having the difficult conversation. It’s time. It’s been time. You’ll survive it. Just be brave and start talking.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
05UndatedIf only I could spend all days surrounded by people brave enough to open their hearts for real.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
06UndatedMany of us have gotten so used to playing to the expectations of society, of our families,of our friends, and of our minds, that we don’t even allow ourselves to consider who we really are or what we really need. We ignore the callsof our hearts, giving our lives, instead, to thedemands of an outside world built on fitting in.We can stop this, right now. We can choose to listen to ourselves, to heed our deepest callings,whatever they are. We can give ourselves thefreedom to be whoever the hell we want to bein this world. Right now, if we choose to.And why wouldn’t we?Scott Stabile / quote ↗
07UndatedMake noise for justice.Make noise for inclusion.Make noise for empathy.Make noise for our planet.Make noise for civil rights.Make noise for women’s rights.Make noise for compassion.Make noise for LOVE.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
08UndatedOnly when I quit lying to myself did I discover the real beauty of my truth.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
10UndatedI will forever remind you that you are gifted, strong and beautiful, exactly as you are.Will you forever remind yourself, too?Scott Stabile / quote ↗
12UndatedCheers to all the Rebels out there who care way too much about Art and Truth and Magic to fall in line with the mundane task of fitting in.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
13UndatedI'm a sucker for sweetness. Intelligence, creativity and a sense of humor mean little to me if a person isn't also kind.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
14UndatedI had to learn to see my shadow and hold my pain in its fullness with acceptance and forgiveness so that I could release the hate I felt for myself and quit hurling it blindly toward others.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
15UndatedThen her heart opened wider than it ever had before, and all she saw before her, everywhere she looked, were people to love.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
16UndatedWhen love fills your heart, all bridges lead to something wonderful. (All roads and tunnels too!)Scott Stabile / quote ↗
17UndatedYou don't have to change yourself to meet the expectations of others. CIOs who not only accept you, but celebrate you for who you are. Give your time and energy to the ones committed to truth, the brave souls working toward a life of authenticity. Let that be your tribe, and you their family. Open yourself to connections formed from a pledge to be real.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
20UndatedWe all have choices. What are you choosing to believe about yourself, and about your life Believing you don't have a choice is a choice.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
21UndatedHe had no idea how to deal with the staggering amount of grief he felt, so he looked to the sun and blinded himself with its light.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
22UndatedDo you ever feel this way?It's usually a tough realization, but it makes moving on that much easier. And it creates more space in your life for those who do get you.Oh, my love, you never really got me, did you?Scott Stabile / quote ↗
23UndatedPlease don't tell me not to be sad. I know you don't like to see me hurting, but my sadness is mine to feel, not yours to heal. Let me be sad. It will pass in its own time. It always does.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
24UndatedMaybe you're holding on too tight, and the magic comes in letting go.Scott Stabile / quote ↗