01UndatedI will love you through everything. Can you do yourself the same honor?Scott Stabile / quote ↗
02UndatedWe have to be willing to acknowledge the good, or all we bring is bitterness to the bad, and that doesn’t help make things any better.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
03UndatedWe loved each other.We hurt each other.We left each other.Now we hate each other.Let’s not stop there.Let’s finally forgive each other.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
04UndatedWill you ever stop needing to be right?Will I ever stop needing you to be?Scott Stabile / quote ↗
05UndatedForgiveness and Blame share an apartment, but not for long, because Blame can’t live with Forgiveness, and Forgiveness can’t live with Blame.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
06UndatedI’ve found a new kind of home in us, and I’m ready to move in for good.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
07UndatedI do love you, but I can no longer wait for you to figure out how to love me in a way that makes us both feel good.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
08UndatedI love you, and I know you love me too.I’m just not sure that’s enough anymore.Don’t we both deserve more than this struggle?Scott Stabile / quote ↗
09UndatedLife changes completely when Love comes first.I don’t need to know you to love you. I’ll start by loving you and see what I come to know from there.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
10UndatedIf you want to change someone, start and end with yourself. You're all you've got control over.yes, other people can change.no, you can’t change other people.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
11UndatedDon’t stay because you think you can change him.You can’t change him.Maybe work on changing yourself so you don’t feel compelled to stay with menlike him in the first place.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
13UndatedI forgive you, but I won’t forget what you did…not in some threatening, I don’t really forgive you kind of way… but just because what you did was shitty and really hurt me and I can’t imagine it suddenly disappearing from my memory. In a way, it’s even cooler that I’ll remember that shitty thing you did to me, and you’ll remember that shitty thing I did to you. That means we didn’t need to forget that we hurt each other in order to love each other still. We figured out a way to forgive each other, for real, and still be friends. How beautiful, yes? Let’s never forget that, either.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
15UndatedLet's never stop holding each other's hands.We all need to have our hand held sometimes.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
16UndatedVulnerability supported by love is perhaps the most powerful catalyst for real connection.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
17UndatedOur differences are beautiful, yet sometimes connection requires us to focus on our similarities, like the fact that we are all trying, all struggling, all wanting to be seen and to be loved. Perhaps if we start there, with this basic understanding of what it means to be alive, we will grow in our connection to one another and learn to love the beautiful differences that embody our improbable human reality.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
18UndatedFind people who can handle your darkest truths, who don’t change the subject when you share your pain, or try to make you feel bad for feeling bad. Find people who understand we all struggle, some of us more than others, and that there’s no weakness in admitting it. Find people who want to be real, however that looks and feels, and who want you to be real, too. Find people who get that life is hard, and who get that life is also beautiful, and who aren’t afraid to honor both of those realities. Find people who help you feel more at home in your heart, mind and body, and who take joy in your joy. Find people who love you, for real, and who accept you, for real. Just as you are. They’re out there, these people. Your tribe is waiting for you. Don’t stop searching until you find them.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
19UndatedAnd then it hit me—I don’t have to participate in these toxic conversations.But if I choose to, I can set a different example. I can bring love to the moment, regardless of the response.I can choose to be kind, no matter what.My power lives in my love.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
20UndatedOften we have to remind our minds that the job of asshole is already taken.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
21UndatedI'm realizing that some of my greatest (or at least most determined) genius lies in my ability to procrastinate.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
22UndatedBooks and workshops and gurus are great, but the very best teacher for your mind is, and will always be, your heart.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
23UndatedWe rarely find answers in the distractions. But oh what possibilities live within the quiet of solitude.In my fear to be alone,I distracted myself away from the deep beauty of my own solitude.Scott Stabile / quote ↗
24UndatedCompassion will lead you to extraordinary worlds your fear doesn't dare visit.Scott Stabile / quote ↗