01c. 1900 ADWhoever has no house now, will never have one. Whoever is alone will stay alone, will sit, read, write long letters through the evening, and wander on the boulevards, up and down, restlessly, while dry leaves are blowing.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
02c. 1900 ADIt is also good to love: because love is difficult. For one human being to love another human being: that is perhaps the most difficult task that has been entrusted to us, the ultimate task, the final test and proof, the work for which all other work is merely preparation. That is why young people, who are beginners in everything, are not yet capable of love: it is something they must learn.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
03c. 1900 ADThink... of the world which you carry within yourself... and set it above everything that you notice about you. Your inmost happening is worth your whole love, that is what you must somehow work at, and not loose too much time and too much courage in explaining your attitude to people.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
04c. 1900 ADWhat an unilateral life, when from the material of a renunciation, we must fashion something we love.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
05c. 1900 ADOnce for each thing. Just once; no more. And we too,just once. And never again. But to have beenthis once, completely, even if only once:to have been at one with the earth, seems beyond undoing.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
06c. 1900 ADFor if we think of this existence of the individual as a larger or smaller room, it becomes clear that most people get to know only one corner of their room, a window seat, a strip of floor which they pace up and down.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
07c. 1900 ADChildren are still the way you were as a child, sad and happy in just the same way--and if you think of your childhood, you once again live among them, among the solitary children.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
08c. 1900 ADIf somewhere deep within me arises some essenceof having been a child, one I never experienced,perhaps the purest childness of my childhood,I don’t want to know it. Without even looking,I want to form an angel out of itand hurl him into the foremost rankof screaming angels, to remind God.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
10c. 1900 ADWhat is needed is this, and this alone: solitude, great inner loneliness. Going into oneself and not meeting anyone for hours – that is what one must arrive at. Loneliness of the kind one knew as a child, when the grown-ups went back and forth bound up in things which seemed grave and weighty because they looked so busy, and because one had no idea what they were up to.And when one day you realise that their preoccupations are meagre, their professions barren and no longer connected to life, why not continue to look on them like a child, as if on something alien, drawing on the depths of your own world, on the expanse of your own solitude, which itself is work and achievement and a vocation? Why wish to exchange a child’s wise incomprehension for rejection and contempt, when incomprehension is solitude, whereas rejection and contempt are ways of participating in what, by precisely these means, you want to sever yourself from?Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
11c. 1900 ADIt is spring again. The earth is like a child that knows poems by heart.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
12c. 1900 ADEarth, my dearest, oh believe me, you no longer need your springtimes to win me over...Unspeakably, I have belonged to you, from the flush.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
13c. 1900 ADBut your solitude will be a support and a home for you, even in the midst of very unfamiliar circumstances, and from it you will find all your paths.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
14c. 1900 ADAnd you should not let yourself be confused in your solitude by the fact that there is something in you that wants to move out of it.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
15c. 1900 ADNever forget that solitude is my lot ... I implore those who love me to love my soliRainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
16c. 1900 ADit is clear that we must trust what is difficult; everything alive trusts in it, everything in Nature grows and defends itself any way it can and is spontaneously itself, tries to be itself at all costs and against all opposition. We know little, but that we must trust in what is difficult is a certainty that will never abandon us; it is good to be solitary, for solitude is difficult; that something is difficult must be one more reason for us to do it.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
17c. 1900 ADWhenever one speaks of lonely people one takes too much for granted. One thinks people all know what they're dealing with. No, they do not. They've never seen a lonely person, they've simply hated him without knowing him. They've been his neighbours who've used him up, they were the voices in the next room who tempted him. They roused things up against him, getting them to make a din and drown him out. Children ganged up against him when he was a tender child, and at every stage of his growing up he grew hostile to grown-ups . They tracked him to his hiding-place like an animal of chase and throughout his long youth there was no closed season. And when he didn't allow himself to be worn out so that he got away they yelled about what came forth from him and called it ugly and were suspicious of it. And as he didn't stop they grew more obvious and gobbled up his food and breathed up his air and spat into his poverty so that he himself became disgusted at it. They brought him into disrepute as if he were a contagion and threw stones at him to speed his departure. And they were right to follow their age-old instinct: because he really was their enemy. But then when he didn't look up they had second thoughts. They suspected that in all of this they had acted as he had willed them to act; they had strengthened him in his solitude and had helped him separate himself from them for ever.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
18c. 1900 ADThere is only one solitude, and it is great and is not easy to bear, and to almost everyone there come hours when they would gladly exchange it for some kind of communion, however banal and cheap, for the appearance of some slight harmony with the most easily available, with the most undeserving… But perhaps those are just the hours when solitude grows; for its growing is painful like the growing of boys and sad like the beginning of Spring.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
19c. 1900 ADIt is true that many young people who wrongly, that is, simply with abandon and unsolitarily, feel the oppressiveness of a failure and want to make the situation in which they have landed viable and fruitful in their own personal way—; for their nature tells them that, less even than all else that is important, can questions of love be solved publicly and according to this or that agreement; that they are questions, intimate questions from one human being to another, which in any case demand a new, special, only personal answer—: but how should they, who have already flung themselves together and no longer mark off and distinguish themselves from each other, who therefore no longer possess anything of their own selves, be able to find a way out of themselves, out of the depth of their already shattered solitude?Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
20c. 1900 ADWe are solitary. We can delude ourselves about this and act as if it were not true. That is all.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
22c. 1900 ADAt first the solitudecharmed me like a prelude,but so much music wounded me.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
23c. 1900 ADMake your ego porous. Will is of little importance, complaining is nothing, fame is nothing. Openness, patience, receptivity, solitude is everything.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗
24c. 1900 ADAnd the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far into the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.Rainer Maria Rilke / quote ↗