01UndatedThe war had remade her. Reshaped her purpose. Why couldn’t she unmake it again?Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
02UndatedIf you think there’s a thing—anything—women didn’t do in the past, you’re wrong.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
03UndatedAsking men to cut away their “feminine” traits asks them to cut away half their humanity, just as asking women to suppress their “masculine” traits asks them to deny their full autonomy.What makes us human is not one or the other—the fist or the open palm—it’s our ability to embrace both, and choose the appropriate action for the situation we’re in. Because to deny one half—to burn down the world or refuse to defend the world from those who would burn it—is to deny our humanity and become something less than human.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
04UndatedI can think of only two movies with women killers we’re meant to sympathize with, and both because they’d been sexually assaulted—Thelma and Louise and Monster. And to be honest, I don’t imagine anyone would call the women in these films heroes. The popular comic book mercenary Red Sonja is, perhaps, a proper hero, but is, once again, motivated by a sexual assault. Male heroes are heroic because of what’s been done to women in their lives, often—the dead child, the dead wife. Women heroes are also heroic for what’s been done to women … to them.We build our heroes, too often, on terrible things done to women, instead of creating, simply, heroes who do things, who persevere in the face of overwhelming odds because it’s the right thing to do.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
05UndatedI was limited by stories that came before mine.We are so often limited by our own expectations of stories, by the stories that came before, by the heroes who came before.… How is it we can bear to live with ourselves, as readers and storytellers, if we swallow those limitations without questioning them?Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
06UndatedLet's be real: if women were "naturally" anything, societies wouldn't spend so much time trying to police every aspect of their livesKameron Hurley / quote ↗
07UndatedWe can pretend all we like that women are equal, ut as long as men and women are continually encouraged to supress the broad aspects of their humanity that we decry as "feminine", we're all screwed. Because it's those things qe celebrate as "other" that make us truly human. It's what we label "soft" or "feminune" that makes civilization possible, It's our empathy, our ability to care and nurtureand connect. It's our ability to come together. To buld. To remake. Asking men to cut away their "feminine" traits asks them to cut away half their humanity, just as asking women to supress ther "masculine" traits asks them to deny their full autonomy.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
08UndatedI spent a great deal of my ilfe trying to be quiet and nice and not piss anyone off. I was misereable. It served no purpose. And they still came for me. It made me even easier to dismiss, to overlook, to assume I was just somebody else everybody could roll over and spout off ridiculously sexist, racist crap without dissent.But nodding and smiling gets old. It makes it easier for people to box you up and ship you off, I'm only really alive when I'm pissing people off anywayKameron Hurley / quote ↗
09UndatedYoung white men in the eighteen-to-twenty-four-year-old range are often coming to grips with the fact that life isn't as easy as they were promised. I've been there myself. When you realize that life isn't going to hand you the job you want or the woman you want to fuck, you look around for someone to blame, and feminism becomes an easy target. If only women were subservient objects who stayed at home, there would be more jobs open to young white men and more women with no other option but to have sex with them for sustenance. I realize that white-man utopia sounds really pleasing to these guys, but it's basically everyone else's worst nightmare It's not so great for them either, but they won't get that for a long time, if ever.Suffice to say you won't convince them of this in an online comments section, either.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
11UndatedMen did not like women to weep. It reminded them of their own failings.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
13UndatedJust keep in mind," Liaro said, "they're not going to remember the words. They'll remember how you made them feel. Make them feel something.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
14UndatedThe monsters don't live in the belly of the world like they all say. The monsters live inside of us. We make the monsters.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
15UndatedThere is nothing I fear more than someone without memory. A person without memory is free to do anything she likes.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
16UndatedI have spent my life battling monsters. It was only in realizing that I was the monster, and choosing to destroy her, that I could save the world.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
17UndatedThe secret to leadership is not to be a particularly intelligent person. It is to surround oneself with those far smarter than oneself. And try not to kill them.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
18UndatedWar makes monsters of us all. But what happens to those of us who no longer wish to be monsters?Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
19UndatedI'm not trying to be mean,' Casamir says.'Intent doesn't always matter.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗
20UndatedAll I am, and all I love, is war. I don't know who I will be if I stop. The world, if it is to survive, needs a leader, not a warmonger. The world I want to make does not require meKameron Hurley / quote ↗
21UndatedHe's grown into quite the young man since you took him in.""You say that like being a man's a good thing," Nyx said.Kameron Hurley / quote ↗