01c. 1938 ADBetter to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have no self.", February 25, 1933]Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
02c. 1938 ADWhen I write after dark the shades of evening scatter their purple through my prose.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
03c. 1938 ADLiterature is the art of writing something that will be read twice.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
04c. 1938 ADAs repressed sadists are supposed to become policemen or butchers, so those with an irrational fear of life become publishers.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
05c. 1938 ADIt is significant comment on the victory of science over magic that were someone to say ‘if I put this pill in your beer it will explode,’ we might believe them; but were they to cry ‘if I pronounce this spell over your beer it will go flat,’ we should remain incredulous and Paracelsus, the Alchemists, Aleister Crowley and all the Magi have lived in vain. Yet when I read science I turn magical; when I study magic, scientific.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
06c. 1938 ADTwo fears alternate in marriage, of loneliness and of bondage. The dread of loneliness being keener than the fear of bondage, we get married. For one person who fears being thus tied there are four who dread being set free. Yet the love of liberty is a noble passion and one to which most married people secretly aspire, -- in moments when they are not neurotically dependent -- but by then it is too late; the ox does not become a bull, not the hen a falcon.The fear of loneliness can be overcome, for it springs from weakness; human beings are intended to be free, and to be free is to be lonely, but the fear of bondage is the apprehension of a real danger, and so I find it all the more pathetic to watch young men and beautiful girls taking refuge in marriage from an imaginary danger, a sad loss to their friends ad a sore trial to each other. First love is the one most worth having, yet the best marriage is often the second, for we should marry only when the desire for freedom be spent; not till then does a man know whether he is the kind who can settle down. The most tragic breakings-up are of those couples who have married young and who have enjoyed seven years of happiness, after which the banked fires of passion and independence explode -- and without knowing why, for they still love each other, they set about accomplishing their common destruction.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
07c. 1938 ADBetter to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have no self." - "Meglio scrivere per se stessi e non avere un pubblico piuttosto che scrivere per gli altri e non essere se stessi".Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
09c. 1938 ADA great writer creates a world of his own and his readers are proud to live in it. A lesser writer may entice them in for a moment, but soon he will watch them filing out.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
10c. 1938 ADBetter to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have noCyril Connolly / quote ↗
11c. 1938 ADThe secret of success is to be in harmony with existence to be always calm ... to let each wave of life wash us a little farther up the shore.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
12c. 1938 ADA ceremony of self-wastage - good talkers are miserable they know that they have betrayed themselves that they have taken material which should have a life of its own to disperse it in noises upon the air.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
13c. 1938 ADOptimism and self-pity are the positive and negative poles of modern cowardice.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
14c. 1938 ADAll charming people have something to conceal usually their total dependence on the appreciation of others.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
16c. 1938 ADThe friendships which last are those wherein each friend respects the other's dignity to the point of not really wanting anything from him.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
18c. 1938 ADThe secret of happiness ... is to be in harmony with existence to be always calm always lucid always willing "to be joined to the universe without being more conscious of it than an idiot " to let each wave of life wash us a little farther up the shore.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
19c. 1938 ADHappiness lies in the fulfillment of the spirit through the body.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
20c. 1938 ADHate is the consequence of fear we fear something before we hate it a child who fears noises becomes a man who hates noise.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
21c. 1938 ADWe must select the illusion which appeals to our temperament and embrace it with passion if we want to be happy.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
22c. 1938 ADLiterature is the art of writing something that will be read twice journalism what will be grasped at once.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
23c. 1938 ADImprisoned in every fat man a thin one is wildly signalling to be let out.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
24c. 1938 ADCarelessness is not fatal to journalism nor are cliches for the eye rests lightly on them. But what is intended to be read once can seldom be read more than once a journalist has to accept the fact that his work by its very todayness is excluded from any share in tomorrow.Cyril Connolly / quote ↗
