01UndatedMy reading list grows exponentially. Every time I read a book, it'll mention three other books I feel I have to read. It's like a particularly relentless series of pop-up ads.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
02UndatedI can’t help but notice that you keep writing love poetry to my wife. Well, you see, I married her, which makes her my wife. You know what you might want to try? Writing some poems about the sunset. The sunset isn’t fucking married.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
04UndatedPlus, in one of his e-mails, the guy said he didn't like pancakes. What kind of asshole doesn't like pancakes?A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
05UndatedUnconditional love is an illogical notion, but such a great and powerful one.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
07UndatedThe key to making healthy decisions is to respect your future self. Honor him or her. Treat him or her like you would treat a friend or a loved one.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
08UndatedThink of negative speech as verbal pollution. And that's what I've been doing: visualizing insults and gossip as a dark cloud, maybe one with some sulfur dioxide. Once you've belched it out, you can't take it back. As grandma said, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. The interesting this is, the less often I vocalize my negative thoughts, the fewer negative thoughts I cook up in the first place.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
09UndatedI find placebos uplifting and exhilarating. It means that taking action--no matter what the action is--might help you feel better.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
10UndatedReading Encyclopaedia Britannica is like channel surfing on a very highbrow cable system.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
12UndatedI've taped a list to my bathroom mirror. It's my Most Violated List. . . Anger. I gave the finger to an ATM. You see, the ATM charged me a $1.75 fee for withdrawl. A dollar seventy-five? That's bananas. So I flipped off the screen. As Julie tells me, when you start making rude gestures to inanimate objects, it's time to work on your anger issues. Mine is not the shouting, pulsing-vein-in-the forehead rage. Like my dad, I rarely raise my voice. My anger problem is more one of long-lasting resentment. It's a heap of real or perceived slights that eventually build up into a mountain of bitterness. . . get some perspective. . . I ask myself the question God asked Jonah. 'Do you do well to be angry?'. . .The world will not end. . . Mute your petty resentment.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
13UndatedRemember, sometimes you have to look beyond the weirdness. It's like the temple in ancient Jerusalem. If you went there, you'd see oxen being slaughtered and all sorts of things. But look beyond the weirdness, to what it means.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
14UndatedI think there's something to the idea that the divine dwells more easily in text than in images. Text allows for more abstract thought, more of a separation between you and the physical world, more room for you and God to meet in the middle. I find it hard enough to conceive of an infinite being. Imagine if those original scrolls came in the form of a graphic novel with pictures of the Lord? I'd never come close to communing with the divine.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
15UndatedThe year showed me beyond a doubt that everyone practices cafeteria religion... But the important lesson was this: there's nothing wrong with choosing. Cafeterias aren't bad per se... the key is in choosing the right dishes. You need to pick the nurturing ones (compassion), the healthy ones (love thy neighbor), not the bitter ones.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
16UndatedThere's almost always a church youth group at the soup kitchen. I have yet to see an atheists' youth group. Yeah, I know, religious people don't have a monopoly on doing good. I'm sure that there are many agnostics and atheists out there slinging mashed potatoes at other soup kitchens. I know the world is full of selfless secular gropus like Doctors without Borders. But I've got to say: It's a lot easier to do good if you put your faith in a book that requires you to do good.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
17UndatedI know that you should eat a lot of the Indian spice turmeric, as it fights cancer. Also that you should avoid the Indian spice turmeric, as it might contain dangerous levels of lead. One or the other.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
18UndatedOne of my biggest challenges is figuring out how to shoehorn my newfound knowledge into conversations.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
19UndatedI found myself speaking more slowly (in an attempt to obey the Bible in speech), as if I was speaking French instead of English.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
20UndatedG-rated language is making me a less angry person. Behavior shapes emotion.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
21UndatedEach cherry took about three seconds to eat. Three seconds to eat, but at least five years in the making. It seemed unfair to the hard-working cherry tree. The least I could do was to devote my attention to the cherry in those three seconds, really appreciate the tartness of the skin and the faint crunching sound when I bite down. I guess it's called mindfulness. Or being in the moment, or making the mundane sacred. Whatever it is, I'm doing it more. Like the ridiculously extended thank-you list for my hummus, the fruit taboo made me more aware of the whole cherry process, the seed, the soil, the five years of watering and waiting. That's the paradox: I thought religion would make me live with my head in the clouds, but as often as not, it grounds me in this world.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
22UndatedA 2002 Oxford study showed counting sheep actually delays the onset of sleep. It's just too dull to stop us from worrying about jobs and spousesA.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
23UndatedThe strange fact that out of millions of people in the world, your mother and father met and decided to get married to each other. And out of the millions of sperm, that the one with your genes was the one that made it to the egg and fertilised the egg. I'll never forget it.A.J. Jacobs / quote ↗
