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I don’t believe in the Law of Attraction. There were things I wanted in my life that no amount of positive thinking was going to make it a reality for me. However, I have learned to believe in the Law of Tough Love. Life has thrown a dozen tragedies at me. I did what any Christian would do--prayed for the outcome I wanted, but God was tough and only gave me what I needed. I now realize that life is not about fulfilling a wish list; rather a need list. Good and bad experiences are on the horizon. How else does a person change, grow and evolve? And just like any warrior woman, I won’t simply survive-- but thrive!

I don’t believe in the Law of Attraction. There were things I wanted in my life that no amount of positive thinking was going to make it a reality for me. However, I have learned to believe in the Law of Tough Love. Life has thrown a dozen tragedies at me. I did what any Christian would do--prayed for the outcome I wanted, but God was tough and only gave me what I needed. I now realize that life is not about fulfilling a wish list; rather a need list. Good and bad experiences are on the horizon. How else does a person change, grow and evolve? And just like any warrior woman, I won’t simply survive-- but thrive!

Approximate author period: c. 2018 AD · contemporary

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Shannon L. Alder
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Approximate author period: c. 2018 AD · contemporary
Approximate author period, documented activity in 2018. 350 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage — Cedar Fort / OverDrive. Publisher-supplied ebook record names Shannon L Alder and gives release 9 January 2018. This is a second-edition activity anchor, not the author's first publication. This is NOT the composition date of every attributed quotation. Source: https://www.overdrive.com/media/3964687/350-questions-lds-couples-should-ask-before-marriage (accessed 2026-10-08).
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