proverb · Words worth keeping
Turn your tongue seven times before speaking.
Turn your tongue seven times before speaking.
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Pause before speaking so that the words fit the facts and the situation. The seven turns emphasise deliberate care rather than a literal counting rule.
Example
Before sending an angry message, a person checks the disputed date and asks a clear question instead of repeating an unverified accusation.
Deeper explanation and when to use it
The tongue is made to wait before releasing its words. This vivid instruction creates a moment for checking accuracy, tone and purpose. Ask whether a statement is known, whether it needs to be said now and whether its wording will help the listener understand. A brief pause can prevent an impulsive accusation or an unnecessary injury. The image does not require silence until a perfect sentence exists. Urgent warnings and straightforward answers may need to be spoken quickly; care should support communication rather than make it impossible.
When to use it
Use it to encourage a short, purposeful pause before a consequential statement.
Keep in mind
Excessive hesitation can delay necessary communication. The number seven is part of the image, not a prescribed procedure.
An interpretation of the words, not a claim about their earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional (French-language collection)
Attribution: traditional - Country attributed
- Not established
A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Date unknown