To rude words deaf ears.
To rude words deaf ears.
Meaning in plain English
Refusing to engage can prevent rude speech from controlling a conversation. Deaf ears represent a deliberate choice to withhold attention from an insult.
Example
A moderator redirects a discussion to its topic instead of answering a participant’s personal insult.
Deeper explanation and when to use it
The saying answers an unpleasant verbal act with the absence of a receptive listener. It proposes that rude words need not receive the response their speaker seeks. In a minor provocation, declining to argue can preserve attention for the actual task. This is a figurative choice about engagement, not a description of hearing ability. It also has limits: a threat, persistent harassment or important concern may require a response and support. The useful question is whether answering would clarify anything, or would simply prolong an exchange that has already become unproductive.
When to use it
Use it when disengaging from a minor insult may end an unproductive exchange.
Keep in mind
Threats and persistent mistreatment may require action rather than silence.
Edsverb editorial interpretation · agent reviewed · 2026-10-04. This explains the saying; it does not establish its historical origin.
- Source
- A Polyglot of Foreign Proverbs (1857)
Printed page 4; French section, paragraph 72; source wording: A paroles lourdes oreilles sourdes.
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