To get the chicks one must coax the hen.

Understand the thought

Meaning in plain English

A desired result may depend on another person’s willing participation. Approach that person considerately rather than demanding only the benefit you want from them.

What the words are saying

The chicks cannot be obtained independently of the hen, so attention turns to the relationship needed to reach the desired result. In a human setting, the useful reading is to understand another person’s concerns and ask in a way that leaves room for consent. A considerate request can be more effective than pressure. The image can also tempt manipulation, so the aim should be fair cooperation rather than flattering someone solely to obtain access, information or assistance at their expense.

Everyday example

A neighbourhood organiser explains the purpose of a shared event and asks residents what would make participation workable before requesting volunteers.

When to use it

Use it when a plan depends on someone else’s voluntary cooperation.

Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.