Love, grief, and money cannot be kept secret.
Love, grief, and money cannot be kept secret.
Meaning in plain English
Strong feelings and visible resources may leave signs even when someone tries to conceal them. Love, grief and money name different things that can become noticeable, without cancelling a person’s right to privacy.
Example
A colleague notices that someone is quieter than usual and offers company without demanding an explanation or guessing what has happened.
Deeper explanation and when to use it
The three subjects are grouped as difficult to keep secret. Feelings may affect conduct, while resources may become visible through choices or circumstances. The saying’s absolute wording should not be treated as proof that every private matter becomes known. Nor does a visible sign establish its cause: an observer can misunderstand it. Attend to what is actually shared, and allow the person to decide whether to explain. Curiosity does not create an entitlement to disclosure.
When to use it
Use it to consider how private concerns may become visible through everyday conduct.
Keep in mind
Do not infer a private story from appearances or treat possible visibility as permission to intrude.
Edsverb editorial interpretation · agent reviewed · 2026-10-05. This explains the saying; it does not establish its historical origin.
- Source
- A Polyglot of Foreign Proverbs (1857)
Printed page 199; Spanish section, paragraph 4145; source wording: Amores, dolores y dineros no pueden estar secretos.
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- Public domain (United States)
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