proverb · Words worth keeping
Honour and ease are seldom bed-fellows.
Honour and ease are seldom bed-fellows.
Understand the thought
Meaning in plain English
Public distinction or a demanding responsibility may bring effort that conflicts with an easy life. The bedfellows image highlights a possible tension, without making exhaustion proof of merit or requiring someone to seek recognition.
Example
A volunteer asked to chair a festival committee considers the meetings and decisions involved before accepting the role, rather than focusing only on the title.
Deeper explanation and when to use it
Honour and ease are personified as companions that seldom share a bed. Honour may suggest esteem, a position of responsibility or the obligations attached to an admired role. Ease suggests freedom from demanding work or worry. The saying warns that a valued distinction can carry costs that are less visible than its praise. It does not establish that all recognition requires suffering, or that a restful life lacks worth. Support, fair conditions and realistic limits can matter greatly. The useful question asks what responsibilities accompany the desired role and whether those demands fit the person’s priorities rather than considering only the prestige.
When to use it
Use it when the demands attached to a respected role need to be considered alongside its appeal.
Keep in mind
Overwork is not proof of virtue; rest, support and choosing a different role can be legitimate.
An interpretation of the words, not a claim about their earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
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- Culture
- English