He who builds a house, or marries, is left with a lank purse.

Understand the thought

Meaning in plain English

Building a house or marrying is pictured leaving little in the purse. The saying directs attention to the resources a major undertaking may consume, without claiming that every such choice causes poverty.

What the words are saying

The two undertakings are joined by the purse left lank afterward. The image makes the remaining resources visible, rather than considering only the desired occasion or result. In another setting, a commitment can carry costs beyond its first obvious expense. Ask what will remain for ordinary needs once it is made. The saying supplies no budget, price or financial recommendation. It does not imply that a particular kind of household or celebration is required for a worthwhile life.

Everyday example

A group planning a celebration considers cleanup and the next month’s ordinary activities alongside the cost of the event itself.

When to use it

Use it to consider what a substantial undertaking leaves available afterward.

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Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.