proverb · Words worth keeping
Fair words will not keep a cat from starving.
Fair words will not keep a cat from starving.
Historical period not yet established
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Meaning in plain English
Kind or pleasing words cannot replace the practical help needed to meet a real need. Check whether reassurance is accompanied by the action the situation requires.
What the words are saying
The hungry cat makes the limit of speech concrete: praise or comfort is not food. Figuratively, a promise or sympathetic response may leave a practical need unchanged if no suitable action follows. Words can still matter by acknowledging the problem, clarifying an arrangement or helping someone ask for support. The proverb does not require a person to provide help beyond their capacity. Its useful concern is the gap between a pleasing response and what has actually been made available. Honest limits and a workable next step can be more valuable than generous-sounding assurances that leave everyone uncertain about what will happen.
Everyday example
After praising a volunteer’s work, an organiser confirms who will cover the task during their absence rather than offering encouragement as a substitute for an arrangement.
When to use it
Use it when reassuring language is being treated as though a practical need has already been met.
What it does not mean
Words can support action; helpers may have limits and should not promise what they cannot provide.
Agent-assisted editorial interpretation. This explains the words; it does not by itself verify their author or earliest origin.
Attribution & collection notes
- Author or tradition
- Traditional
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A country attribution does not establish the earliest origin. - Historical period
- Historical period not yet established
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- A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases
Entry 1842 · Words (fair)
A collection's publication date can be later than the words it records.
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