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A loveless life is a living death.
In plain English: The saying compares a life without love to death while still living. It uses a stark image to emphasise the felt absence of affection.
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The people who matter
Look at love, friendship and kindness from more than one angle.
02 / 6 · proverb
You can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family.
In plain English: The saying contrasts chosen friendships with family ties one does not initially select. It distinguishes personal choice from relationships already present in one’s life.
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He who loves you loves you with your dirt.
In plain English: The saying makes love include a person’s dirt. As an analogy, affection can acknowledge imperfections rather than require an idealised person.
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A good friend is like a four leaf clover–hard to find and lucky to have.
In plain English: A good friend compared with a rare clover gives a valued relationship an image of welcome discovery. The saying appreciates companionship.
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A man loves his sweetheart the most; his wife the best, but his mother the longest.
In plain English: A man loving a sweetheart most, a wife best and a mother longest gives different relationships contrasting kinds of affection. The saying arranges love through fixed roles.
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A good wife and health Are a man's best wealth.
In plain English: A caring partnership and wellbeing can matter more than material possessions. The saying’s language of a wife as wealth needs a reading that preserves her independent dignity.
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A question for your day
What would listening carefully look like in your next conversation?
A saying offers one perspective, not a universal answer. Keep what is useful and question what does not fit.