01UndatedThere's nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
03UndatedMy Aunt Helen was my favorite person in the whole world. She was my mom’s sister. She got straight A’s when she was a teenager and she used to give me books to read. My father said that the books were a little too old for me, but I liked them so he just shrugged and let me read.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
04UndatedOn Friday night, I was reading my new book, but my brain got tired, so I decided to watch some television instead.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
05UndatedI hate you.'My sister said it different than she said it to my dad. She meant it with me. She really did.'I love you,' was all I could say in return.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
06UndatedGirls like guys to be a challenge. It gives them some mold to fit in how they act. Like a mom. What would a mom do if she couldn't fuss over you and make you clean your room? And what would you do without her fussing and making you do it? Everyone needs a mom. And a mom knowns this. And it gives her a sense of purpose. You get it?Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
07UndatedSam and Patrick looked at me. And I looked at them. And I think they knew. Not anything specific really. They just knew. And I think that's all you can ever ask from a friend.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
08UndatedIf you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy. Even if you wind up being left out.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
09UndatedAnd then he says something like this ... "I would die for you. But I won't live for you." Something like that. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
10UndatedTo tell you the truth, I've just been avoiding everything. I walk around the school hallways and look at the people. I look at the teachers and wonder why they're here. If they like their jobs. Or us. And I wonder how smart they were when they were fifteen. Not in a mea way. In a curious way. it's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that da, and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report on top of that. or wondering who did the heart breaking. And wondering why. Especially since I know that if they went to another school, the person who had their heart broken would have had their heart broken by somebody else, so why does it have to be so personal? And if I went to another school, I would never have known Sam or Patrick or Mary Elizabeth or anyone except my family. (Pg 142)Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
11UndatedIf somebody likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
12UndatedPatrick actually used to be popular before Sam bought him some good music.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
13UndatedIncidentally, I only have one cavity, and as much as my dentist asks me to, I just can't bring myself to floss.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
14UndatedI am writing to you because she said you listen and understand and didn't try to sleep with that person at that party even though you could have. I just need to know that someone out there listens and understands and doesn't try to sleep with people even if they could have. I need to know that these people exist.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
15UndatedAnd when she started becoming a “young lady,” and no one was allowed to look at her because she thought she was fat. And how she really wasn’t fat. And how she was actually very pretty. And how different her face looked when she realized boys thought she was pretty. And how different her face looked the first time she really liked a boy who was not on a poster on her wall. And how her face looked when she realized she was in love with that boy. I wondered how her face would look when she came out from behind those doors.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
16UndatedIt's strange because sometimes, I read a book, and I think I am the people in the book. Also, when I write letters, I spend the next two days thinking about what I figured out in my letters.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
17UndatedAnd I thought about how many people have loved those songs. And how many people got through a lot of bad times because of those songs. And how many people enjoyed good times with those songs. And how much those songs really mean. I think it would be great to have written one of those songs. I bet if I wrote one of them, I would be very proud. I hope the people who wrote those songs are happy. I hope they feel it's enough. I really do because they've made me happy. And I'm only one person.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
18UndatedAsleep by the SmithsVapour Trail by RideScarborough Fair by Simon & GarfunkelA Whiter Shade of Pale by Procol HarumDear Prudence by the BeatlesGypsy by Suzanne VegaNights in White Satin by the Moody BluesDaydream by Smashing PumpkinsDusk by Genesis (before Phil Collins was even in the band!)MLK by U2Blackbird by the BeatlesLandslide by Fleetwood MacAsleep by the Smiths (again!)-Charlie's mixtapeStephen Chbosky / quote ↗
20UndatedThe family watched It's a Wonderful Life, which is a very beautiful movie and all I could think was why didn't they make a movie about uncle Billy?...Because he was a drunk and fat and lost all that money in the first place. I wanted an angel to come down and show us how uncle Billy's life had meaningStephen Chbosky / quote ↗
21UndatedThe two families really don't like each other, except for all us younger cousins because we don't know any better.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
22UndatedSo, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try and feel okay about them.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
23UndatedI just need to know that someone out there listens and understands and doesn't try to sleep with people even if they could have. I need to know that these people exist.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗
24UndatedIt's sweet and everything, but it's like you're not even there sometimes. It's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things." "Like what?" I asked. My mouth was dry. "I don't know. Like take their hands when the slow song comes up for a change. Or be the one who asks someone for a date. Or tell people what you need. Or what you want.Stephen Chbosky / quote ↗