01UndatedIn itself, homosexuality is as limiting as heterosexuality: the ideal should be to be capable of loving a woman or a man; either, a human being, without feeling fear, restraint, or obligation.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
02UndatedOne's life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love, friendship, and compassionSimone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
03UndatedTwo separate beings, in different circumstances, face to face in freedom and seeking justification of their existence through one another, will always live an adventure full of risk and promise." (p. 248)Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
04UndatedI am incapable of conceiving infinity, and yet I do not accept finity. I want this adventure that is the context of my life to go on without end.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
05UndatedI am awfully greedy; I want everything from life. I want to be a woman and to be a man, to have many friends and to have loneliness, to work much and write good books, to travel and enjoy myself, to be selfish and to be unselfish… You see, it is difficult to get all which I want. And then when I do not succeed I get mad with anger.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
06UndatedIt is in the knowledge of the genuine conditions of our lives that we must draw our strength to live and our reasons for living.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
08UndatedRegardless of the staggering dimensions of the world about us, the density of our ignorance, the risks of catastrophes to come, and our individual weakness within the immense collectivity, the fact remains that we are absolutely free today if we choose to will our existence in its finiteness, a finiteness which is open on the infinite. And in fact, any man who has known real loves, real revolts, real desires, and real will knows quite well that he has no need of any outside guarantee to be sure of his goals; their certitude comes from his own drive.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
09UndatedIn particular those who are condemned to stagnation are often pronounced happy on the pretext that happiness consists in being at rest. This notion we reject, for our perspective is that of existentialist ethics. Every subject plays his part as such specifically through exploits or projects that serve as a mode of transcendence; he achieves liberty only through a continual reaching out towards other liberties. There is no justification for present existence other than its expansion into an indefinitely open future. Every time transcendence falls back into immanence, stagnation, there is a degradation of existence into the ‘en-sois’ – the brutish life of subjection to given conditions – and of liberty into constraint and contingence. This downfall represents a moral fault if the subject consents to it; if it is inflicted upon him, it spells frustration and oppression. In both cases it is an absolute evil. Every individual concerned to justify his existence feels that his existence involves an undefined need to transcend himself, to engage in freely chosen projects.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
10UndatedWhat an odd thing a diary is: the things you omit are more important than those you put in.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
11UndatedCapabilities are clearly manifested only when they have been realized.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
12UndatedAuthentic love must be founded on reciprocal recognition of two freedoms...Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
13UndatedToday, however, we are having a hard time living because we are so bent on outwitting death.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
14UndatedThe misfortune is that although everyone must come to [death], each experiences the adventure in solitude. We never left Maman during those last days... and yet we were profoundly separated from her.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
15UndatedOne night I summoned God, if He really existed, to show Himself to me. He didn't, and I never addressed another word to Him. In my heart of hearts I was very glad He didn't exist. I should have hated it if what was going on here below had had to end up in eternity.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
16UndatedAlone: for the first time I understood the terrible significance of that word. Alone without a witness, without anyone to speak to, without refuge. The breath in my body, the blood in my veins, all this hurly-burly in my head existed for nobody.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
17UndatedI was too much of an extremist to be able to live under the eye of God and at the same time say both yes and no to lifeSimone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
18UndatedIt was easier for me to think of a world without a creator than of a creator burdened with all the contradictions in the world.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
19UndatedIn a way, literature is true than life,' he said to himself. 'On paper, you say exactly and completely what you feel. How easy it is to break things off on paper! You hate, you shout, you kill, you commit suicide; you carry things to the very end. And that's why it's false. But it's damned satisfying. In life, you're constantly denying yourself, and others are always contradicting you. On paper, I make time stand still and I impose my convictions on the whole world; they become the only reality.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
21UndatedHe reflected. 'I know a lot of different kids of people what I want is to show each of them how the others really are. You hear so many lies!Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
22UndatedYet I loathe the thought of annihilating myself quite as much now as I ever did. I think with sadness of all the books I’ve read, all the places I’ve seen, all the knowledge I’ve amassed and that will be no more. All the music, all the paintings, all the culture, so many places: and suddenly nothing. ... If it had at least enriched the earth; if it had given birth to… what? A hill? A rocket? But no. Nothing will have taken place. I can still see the hedge of hazel trees flurried by the wind and the promises with which I fed my beating heart while I stood gazing at the gold-mine at my feet: a whole life to live. The promises have all been kept. And yet, turning an incredulous gaze towards that young and credulous girl, I realise with stupor how much I was gypped.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
23UndatedIf I were to share Jaques' existence I would find it hard to hold my own against him, for already I found his nihilism contagious.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗
24UndatedJaques was only what he was; but from a distance he became something more, became everything to me, everything I did not possess. It was to him I owed pains and pleasures whose violence alone saved me from the deserts of boredom in which I found myself bogged down.Simone de Beauvoir / quote ↗