SLShannon L. Alder

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Shannon L. Alder

Historical coordinate: c. 2018 AD · Approximate author period, documented activity in 2018. 350 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage — Cedar Fort / OverDrive. Publisher-supplied ebook record names Shannon L Alder and gives release 9 January 2018. This is a second-edition activity anchor, not the author's first publication. This is NOT the composition date of every attributed quotation. Source: https://www.overdrive.com/media/3964687/350-questions-lds-couples-should-ask-before-marriage (accessed 2026-10-08).

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01c. 2018 AD

Lies don't end relationships the truth does.

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02c. 2018 AD

Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.

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03c. 2018 AD

Closure /klōZHər/ Noun1. The thing women tell you what they want, but secretly they really want you to tell them why you don’t want them again, so they can try one last time to convince you that you were wrong. 2. The warped mentality that having someone tell you honestly why they don’t want you is going to somehow make you feel peace, so you can move on.3. The neat packaging of finishing conversations because you have been stewing over it insecurely about the length of what a stalker does. 4. The one thing women don’t give themselves because if they didn’t care about the jerk they wouldn’t still be hanging onto another conversation that tells them what they already know: He just isn’t that interested in you.5. The anal retentive art of perfecting every ending with meaning, rather than just excepting you went through something rather sucky and he doesn’t care.6. The act of closing something with someone, when in reality you should slam the door.

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04c. 2018 AD

Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!

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05c. 2018 AD

You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in without mental orders. Your dealing with symptoms and until you understand that you will always try to find sane explanations among insane behaviors. You will always have unreachable standards and disappointments. If you want to survive in a marriage to someone that has a disorder you have to judge their actions from a place of realistic expectations in regards to that person's upbringing and diagnosis.

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06c. 2018 AD

It really is quite simple. All women really want is to be needed, valued and loved above anyone else and they will make you a keeper. It's your actions she is paying attention to, not your words.

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07c. 2018 AD

Maybe, the question isn't who will look good by your side, who will make these days less dull, who will bring you the greatest financial benefit, who will be the one to bring you pleasure, who do you have the most in common with?.... Maybe, the question one should ask is who do you want at your side when you are dying?

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08c. 2018 AD

Empowering Women 101: If a normal man wants you he will let you know. You won't have to guess. He will move mountains to bring you into his life. If he is abnormal he will string you along, drop a trail of crumbs and clues for you to follow, in order to keep you guessing. This type of man desires you, but doesn't value you.

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09c. 2018 AD

Empowering Women 101-- A strong women knows that cheating isn't a mistake it's a choice. The choice was made long before you found out.

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10c. 2018 AD

Sometimes, you can be more than enough for someone, but they choose not to be in your life. Always remember that Satan works hard to keep people miserable by feeding their fears, so they stay in their comfort zone. The truth is some people value what is predictable, more than chemistry.

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11c. 2018 AD

The right man in your life will fly across the world to say hello, instead of saying goodbye.

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12c. 2018 AD

The problem isn’t that I think so highly of myself. It is just that you think so little of yourself. Live life BIG, BOLD and OUT LOUD!

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13c. 2018 AD

Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.

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14c. 2018 AD

The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would think is important. When you think highly of yourself, me thinking highly of you will never be enough!

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15c. 2018 AD

Introspective souls are often tormented by their passionate visions. This is because visionaries see what shall be and wake up to what is. However, if you couldn't see a glimpse of the city lights while stranded in the forest, how would you ever know to walk in that direction? Sometimes, your vision can't be put into action, until you gather the learning experiences, along your journey first.

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16c. 2018 AD

They say faith is taking the first step when you can’t see the whole staircase. Actually, wisdom is seeing the elevator behind it that would have taken you to the top floor.

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17c. 2018 AD

Maybe, the lesson we can all learn from the inner sadness of a Narcissist is to see through our own fabrications, our own illusions so that we can be set free to be real once more.

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18c. 2018 AD

Time doesn't heal all wounds, only distance can lessen the sting of them.

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19c. 2018 AD

Often the inspiration to write music comes from the voices in your head. You’re not crazy. Just be thankful they are not making you rescue people in 20-degree weather at 2:30 in the morning in the forest.

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20c. 2018 AD

There is no real bravery in getting paid to save someone's life. However, there is a large amount of bravery in a nurse break dancing at the hospital's Christmas party.

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21c. 2018 AD

A very unwise man once said, “He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.” A very annoyed woman once said, “He who does not want to communicate will never enjoy their silence for very long.

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22c. 2018 AD

God's justice will always be found at the end of a pen.

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23c. 2018 AD

I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to the top of mountains. A confident person enjoys the journey, the people they meet along the way and sees life not as a competition. They reach the summit last because they know God isn’t at the top waiting for them. He is down below helping his followers to understand that the view is glorious where ever you stand.

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24c. 2018 AD

Spirituality has a language of it's own and some people haven't learned to speak it.

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