01UndatedGod created philosophy for all the intellects that got bored of hearing the same bible stories every Sunday.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
02UndatedIf you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
03UndatedAccomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
04UndatedTo love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
05UndatedTwo people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neither one has an oar to row the other to shore. You can meet your mirror image in life, but that doesn't mean you should marry him.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
06Undatedvictimnoun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder, in order to excuse your behavior.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
07UndatedTruth and facts are woven together. However, sometimes facts can blind you from seeing what is actually going on in someone’s life.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
08UndatedYour words will either give you joy or give you sorrow, but if they were spoken without regret, they give you peace.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
09UndatedNo boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
10UndatedYour strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself, instead of thinking everyone is a struggle worth overcoming. Every obstacle in life is a lesson that teaches us, not others.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
11UndatedDear Child, Sometimes on your travel through hell, you meet people that think they are in heaven because of their cleverness and ability to get away with things. Travel past them because they don't understand who they have become and never will. These type of people feel justified in revenge and will never learn mercy or forgiveness because they live by comparison. They are the people that don't care about anyone, other than who is making them feel confident. They don’t understand that their deity is not rejoicing with them because of their actions, rather he is trying to free them from their insecurities, by softening their heart. They rather put out your light than find their own. They don't have the ability to see beyond the false sense of happiness they get from destroying others. You know what happiness is and it isn’t this. Don’t see their success as their deliverance. It is a mask of vindication which has no audience, other than their own kind. They have joined countless others that call themselves “survivors”. They believe that they are entitled to win because life didn’t go as planned for them. You are not like them. You were not meant to stay in hell and follow their belief system. You were bound for greatness. You were born to help them by leading. Rise up and be the light home. You were given the gift to see the truth. They will have an army of people that are like them and you are going to feel alone. However, your family in heaven stands beside you now. They are your strength and as countless as the stars. It is time to let go!Love, Your Guardian AngelShannon L. Alder / quote ↗
12UndatedYour dignity can be mocked, abused, compromised, toyed with, lowered and even badmouthed, but it can never be taken from you. You have the power today to reset your boundaries, restore your image, start fresh with renewed values and rebuild what has happened to you in the past.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
13UndatedWhen someone you love makes compassion, kindness, forgiveness, respect and God an option, you can be sure they have made you an option, as well.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
14UndatedThe mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let people in it is because you're not ready to deal with the pain of honesty.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
15UndatedYou are not what others think you are. You are what God knows you are.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
16UndatedThe Anatomy of Conflict:If there is no communication then there is no respect. If there is no respect then there is no caring. If there is no caring then there is no understanding. If there is no understanding then there is no compassion. If there is no compassion then there is no empathy. If there is no empathy then there is no forgiveness. If there is no forgiveness then there is no kindness. If there is no kindness then there is no honesty. If there is no honesty then there is no love. If there is no love then God doesn't reside there. If God doesn't reside there then there is no peace. If there is no peace then there is no happiness. If there is no happiness ----then there IS CONFLICT BECAUSE THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION!Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
17UndatedFear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the end was your past, and the future is only full of beautiful beginnings through an eternity built around God’s love.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
18UndatedIn the end, what will you fight for-- what got there first, what got there last or what has been there all along?Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
19UndatedThe more I know about God, I am convinced He likes to read books and authors are His librarians. Every soul is a story waiting to be read.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
20UndatedMany of the most powerful things in life are not tangible. All it takes is for you to close your eyes to see.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
21UndatedYou can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to see the light.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
23UndatedMy father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wisdom, but unless you apply what you learned then its only words on a page. Life is not lived with intentions, but action.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
24UndatedThe moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the darkness, in order to be seen.Shannon L. Alder / quote ↗
