01UndatedBe very chary of telling your hoarded secrets. Many lose all power once they have been divulged.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
02UndatedHome is people. Not a place. If you go back there after the people are gone, then all you can see is what is not there any more.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
03UndatedI truly wanted to live a life in which I could make my own choices, independent of the 'duties' of my birth and position. It was only when fate granted that to me that I realized the cost of it. I could set aside my responsibilities to others and live my life as I please only when I also severed my ties to them. I could not have it both ways. To be part of a family, or any community, is to have duties and responsibilities, to be bound by the rules of that group.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
04UndatedThere would always be dishonorable things done to preserve the honor of any power.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
05UndatedWhat is a secret? It is much more than knowledge shared with only a few, or perhaps only one another. It is power. It is a bond. It is a sign of deep trust, or the darkest threat possible.... Be very chary of revealing your hoarded secrets. Many lose all power once they have been divulged. Be even more careful of sharing your secrets lest you find yourself a puppet dancing on someone else's strings.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
06UndatedSuspense was an excellent tool for keeping powerful people off balance. It gave one bargaining power.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
07UndatedOne way to disperse fear and create decision was to consider the worst possible outcome of one's actions.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
09UndatedAs much as I had always longed to be freed of my duties and obligations, being released from such bonds was as much a severing as an emancipation.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
10UndatedRefuse anxiety. When you borrow trouble against what might be, you neglect the moment you have now to enjoy. The man who worries about what will next be happening to him loses this moment in dread of the next with pre-judgementRobin Hobb / quote ↗
11UndatedThere was a danger in asking too much of a child, but the danger of asking too little was almost equal.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
12UndatedI will always take your part, Bee. Right or wrong. That is why you must always take care to be right, lest you make your father a fool.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
13UndatedShe had called herself a whore. That was a man's word, a shame-word flung at a woman. But she did not seem ashamed. She wielded the word like a sword, slicing away all his preconceptions of who she was. She had earned her living by her sex, and she did not seem to regret it.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
14UndatedYou want a mate who will follow your dream. You don't want to give up your own ambitions to make someone else's life possible.''I supposed that's true,' Althea admitted reluctantly. An instant later she demanded, 'Why is that so wrong?''It isn't,' Amber assured her, A moment later she added wickedly, 'As long as you're male.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
15UndatedWhy must it be one or the other?' she countered. 'You are both a capable seaman and the son of a Bingtown Trader. Why should not I have both sets of skill?Robin Hobb / quote ↗
16UndatedBe a little puppet on their strings. That was what Reyn wanted from her, also. She recognized that even if he did not. He was attracted to her not just for her beauty and charm, but because she was young. He thought he could control all her actions and even her thoughts.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
17UndatedFor the weakest has but to try his strength to find it, and then he shall be strong.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
18UndatedI can see that you go through life athwart it. You see the flow of events, you are able to tell how you could most easily fit yourself into it. But you dare to oppose it. And why? Simply because you look at it and say, 'this fate does not suit me. I will not allow it to befall me.'" Amber shook her head, but her small smile made it an affirmation. "I have always admired people who can do that. So few do. Many, of course, will rant and rave against the garment fate has woven for them, but they pick it up and on it all the same, and most wear it to the end of their days. You... you would rather go naked into the storm.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
19UndatedThat part of your life is over. Set it aside as something you have finished. Complete or no, it is done with you. No being gets to decide what his life is "supposed to be"...'Be a man. Discover where you are now, and go on from there, making the best of things. Accept your life, and you might survive it. If you hold back from it, insisting this is not your life, not where you are meant to be, life will pass you by. You may not die from such foolishness, but you might as well be dead for all the good your life will do you or anyone else.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
20UndatedThat destiny is not reserved for a few chosen ones. Each man has a destiny. Recognizing it and fulfilling it are the purpose of a man's life.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
21UndatedMany great ideas are not unique. They only become unique when the men who have the wherewithal actually to implement them come together.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
22UndatedOne must plan for the future and anticipate the future without fearing the future.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
23UndatedThere is no path to the future, Fitz. The path is now. Now is all there is, or ever will be. You can change perhaps the next breaths in your life. But after that, random chance seizes you in its jaws again. A tree falls on you, a spider bites your ankle, and all your grand plans for winning a battle are for naught. Now is what we have, Fitz, and now is where we act to stay alive.Robin Hobb / quote ↗
24UndatedIf one bad thing befell me, I immediately linked it to every bad thing that had happened in the last week or might happen in the coming week. And when I became sad, I was prone to wallow in grief, piling up my woes and sprawling on them like a dragon on a hoard.Robin Hobb / quote ↗