01UndatedFear is how you lose your life...a little bit at a time...What we give to fear, we take away from...faith.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
02UndatedWe all have same beginning (BIRTH), and we will have same ending (DEATH). So how different can we be?Mitch Albom / quote ↗
03UndatedBe compassionate ... and take responsibility for each other. If we only learned those lessons, this world would be a better place.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
04UndatedNow you know how badly someone wanted you, Charley. Children forget that sometimes. They think of themselves as a burden instead of a wish granted.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
05UndatedStatus will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
06UndatedWe’re so wrapped up with egotistical things, career, family, having enough money, meeting the mortgage, getting a new car, fixing the radiator when it breaks—we’re involved in trillions of little acts just to keep going. So we don’t get into the habit of standing back and looking at our lives and saying, Is this all? Is this all I want? Is something missing?Mitch Albom / quote ↗
07UndatedBut I do know we’re deficient in some way. We are too involved in materialistic things, and they don’t satisfy us. The loving relationships we have, the universe around us, we take these things for granted.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
08UndatedTake any emotion—love for a woman, or grief for a loved one, or what I’m going through, fear and pain from a deadly illness. If you hold back on the emotions—if you don’t allow yourself to go all the way through them—you can never get to being detached, you’re too busy being afraid. You’re afraid of the pain, you’re afraid of the grief. You’re afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. “But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your head even, you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then can you say, ‘All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognize that emotion. Now I need to detach from that emotion for a moment’.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
09UndatedThere is no experience like having children.’ That’s all. There is no substitute for it. You cannot do it with a friend. You cannot do it with a lover. If you want the experience of having complete responsibility for another human being, and to learn how to love and bond in the deepest way, then you should have children.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
10UndatedThis is how you start to get respect, by offering something that you have.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
11UndatedThe fact is, there is no foundation, no secure ground, upon which people may stand today if it isn’t the family. If you don’t have the support and love and caring and concern that you get from a family, you don’t have much at all. Love is so supremely important. As our great poet Auden said, ‘Love each other or perish’.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
12UndatedLook, no matter where you live, the biggest defect we human beings have is our shortsightedness. We don’t see what we could be. We should be looking at our potential, stretching ourselves into everything we can become. But if you’re surrounded by people who say ‘I want mine now,’ you end up with a few people with everything and a military to keep the poor ones from rising up and stealing it.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
13UndatedThis is part of what a family is about, not just love, but letting others know there’s someone who is watching out for them. It’s what I missed so much when my mother died—what I call your ‘spiritual security’—knowing that your family will be there watching out for you. Nothing else will give you that. Not money. Not fame.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
14UndatedIt is far more comforting to think God listened and said no, than to think that nobody’s out there.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
15UndatedLook, if you say that science will eventually prove there is no God, on that I must differ. No matter how small they take it back, to a tadpole, to an atom, there is always something they can’t explain, something that created it all at the end of the search.“And no matter how far they try to go the other way – to extend life, play around with the genes, clone this, clone that, live to one hundred and fifty – at some point, life is over. And then what happens? When the life comes to an end?”I shrugged.“You see?”He leaned back. He smiled.“When you come to the end, that’s where God begins.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
17UndatedPersonally, I always wondered about authors and celebrities who loudly declared there was no God. It was usually when they were healthy and popular and being listened to by crowds. What happens, I wondered, in the quiet moments before death? By then, they have lost the stage, the world has moved on. If suddenly, in their last gasping moments, through fear, a vision, a late enlightenment, they change their minds about God, who would know?Mitch Albom / quote ↗
19UndatedYou can't substitute material things for love or for gentleness or for tenderness or for a sense of comradeshipMitch Albom / quote ↗
21UndatedMuch of what we called "depression" was really dissatisfaction, a result of setting a bar impossibly high or expecting treasures we weren't willing to work for.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
23UndatedDo you prefer Mitch? Or is Mitchell better?'.. .. Mitch, I say. Mitch is what my friends called me. 'Well, Mitch it is then,' Morrie says, as if closing a deal. 'And, Mitch?' Yes? 'I hope one day you will think of me as your friend.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
24UndatedBut she wasn’t around, and that’s the thing when your parents die, you feel like instead of going in to every fight with backup, you are going into every fight alone.Mitch Albom / quote ↗
