01c. 1937 ADI don't know what she is now. A stranger, mostly. It's as if she has become a part of a different world, one that doesn't include me anymore....Lois Lowry / quote ↗
02c. 1937 ADI laugh, because he knew what I was thinking, and very few people ever know what I'm thinking.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
03c. 1937 ADYou know, sometimes it's nice to just have someone to blame, even if it has to be yourself, even if it doesn't make sense.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
05c. 1937 ADLooking back together, telling our stories to one another, we learn how to be on our own.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
06c. 1937 ADThat had day changed him. It had changed the entire village. Shaken by the death of a boy they had loved, each person found ways to be more worthy of the sacrifice he had made. They had become kinder, more careful, more attentive to one another.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
07c. 1937 ADDying is a very solitary thing. The only thing we can do it be there when she wants us there.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
08c. 1937 ADShe's sure, absolutely sure, that what she's waiting for will happen, just the way she wants it to; and I'm so uncertain, so fearful my dreams will end up forgotten somewhere, someday, like a piece of string and a paperclip lying in a dish.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
09c. 1937 ADShe smiles, and her eyes look as if they can see back into her memory, into all the things that have gone into making a person what they are.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
10c. 1937 ADOver and over. They be making me remember everythings. Me old songs, they just be natural. But now they be stuffing new things into me and this poor head hurts horrid.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
11c. 1937 ADShe was the only doctor's wife in Branford, Maine, who hung her wash on an outdoor clothesline instead of putting it through a dryer, because she liked to look out the window and see the clothes blowing in the wind. She had been especially delighted, one day, when one sleeve of the top of her husband's pajamas, prodded by the stiff breeze off the bay, reached over and grabbed her nightgown around the waist.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
12c. 1937 ADFinally he steeled himself to read the final rule again. He had been trained since earliest childhood, since his earliest learning of language, never to lie. It was an integral part of the learning of precise speech. Once, when he had been a Four, he had said, just prior to the midday meal at school, “I’m starving.” Immediately he had been taken aside for a brief private lesson in language precision. He was not starving, it was pointed out. He was hungry. No one in the community was starving, had ever been starving, would ever be starving. To say “starving” was to speak a lie. An unintentioned lie, of course. But the reason for precision of language was to ensure that unintentional lies were never uttered. Did he understand that? they asked him. And he had.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
13c. 1937 ADIt wasn't the same. I'm pretty good at making the best of things, but it wasn't the same.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
15c. 1937 ADIt was because someone who was a real friend was having the exact same feelings I was having, about something that was more important to me than anything else. I bet there are people who go through a whole life and never experience that.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
16c. 1937 ADThings could change Gabe. Things could be different. I don't know how, but there must be some way for things to be different. There could be colors. And grandparents. And everybody would have memories. You know about memories...Gabe, there could be love.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
19c. 1937 ADTime goes on, and your life is still there, and you have to live it. After a while you remember the good things more often than the bad. Then, gradually, the empty silent parts of you fill up with sounds of talking and laughter again, and the jagged edges of sadness are softened by memories.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
20c. 1937 ADAnd here in this room, I re-experience the memories again and again it is how wisdom comes and how we shape our future.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
23c. 1937 ADWe're all on our own, aren't we? That's what it boils down to. We come into this world on our own- in Hawaii, as I did, or New York, or China, or Africa or Montana- and we leave it in the same way, on our own, wherever we happen to be at the time- in a plane, in our beds, in a car, in a space shuttle, or in a field of flowers. And between those times, we try to connect along the way with others who are also on their own. If we're lucky, we have a mother who reads to us. We have a teacher or two along the way who make us feel special. We have dogs who do the stupid dog tricks we teach them and who lie on our bed when we're not looking, because it smells like us, and so we pretend not to notice the paw prints on the bedspread. We have friends who lend us their favorite books. Maybe we have children, and grandchildren, and funny mailmen and eccentric great-aunts, and uncles who can pull pennies out of their ears. All of them teach us stuff. They teach us about combustion engines and the major products of Bolivia, and what poems are not boring, and how to be kind to each other, and how to laugh, and when the vigil is in our hands, and when we have to make the best of things even though it's hard sometimes. Looking back together, telling our stories to one another, we learn how to be on our own.Lois Lowry / quote ↗
24c. 1937 ADMaybe someday, if I succeed at something, I'll stop saying, "It isn't fair" about everything else.Lois Lowry / quote ↗