01UndatedHow often do we tell our own life story? How often do we adjust, embellish, make sly cuts? And the longer life goes on, the fewer are those around to challenge our account, to remind us that our life is not our life, merely the story we have told about our life. Told to others, but—mainly—to ourselves.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
02UndatedBooks say: She did this because. Life says: She did this. Books are where things are explained to you; life is where things aren't. I'm not surprised some people prefer books. Books make sense of life. The only problem is that the lives they make sense of are other people's lives, never your own.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
03UndatedLater on in life, you expect a bit of rest, don't you? You think you deserve it. I did, anyway. But then you begin to understand that the reward of merit is not life's business.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
04UndatedThough why should we expect age to mellow us? If it isn't life's business to reward merit, why should it be life's business to give us warm, comfortable feelings towards its end? What possible evolutionary purpose could nostalgia serve?Julian Barnes / quote ↗
05UndatedIt's the best way of telling the truth; it's a process of producing grand, beautiful, well-ordered lies that tell more truth than any assemblage of facts. Beyond that … [it's] delight in, and play with, language; also, a curiously intimate way of communicating with people whom you will never meet.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
06UndatedThis was another of our fears: that Life wouldn't turn out to be like Literature. Look at our parents--were they the stuff of Literature? At best, they might aspire to the condition of onlookers and bystanders, part of a social backdrop against which real, true, important things could happen. Like what? The things Literature was about: Love, sex, morality, friendship, happiness, suffering, betrayal, adultery, good and evil, heroes and villains, guilt and innocence, ambition, power, justice, revolution, war, fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, the individual against society, success and failure, murder, suicide, death, God.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
07UndatedTo be stupid, and selfish, and to have good health are the three requirements for happiness - though if stupidity is lacking, the others are useless.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
08UndatedRemember the botched brothel-visit in L’Education sentimentale and remember its lesson. Do not participate: happiness lies in the imagination, not the act. Pleasure is found first in anticipation, later in memory.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
09UndatedIs despair wrong? Isn’t it the natural condition of life after a certain age? … After a number of events, what is there left but repetition and diminishment? Who wants to go on living? The eccentric, the religious, the artistic (sometimes); those with a false sense of their own worth. Soft cheeses collapse; firm cheeses endurate. Both go mouldy.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
10UndatedHe always thought that Touie's long illness would somehow prepare him for her death. He always imagined that grief anf guilt, if they followed, would be more clear-edged, more defined, more finite. Instead they seem like weather, like clouds constantly re-forming into new shapes, blown by nameless, unidentifiable winds.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
11UndatedLife versus Death becomes, as Montaigne pointed out, Old Age versus Death.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
12UndatedEverything you invent is true: you can be sure of that. Poetry is a subject as precise as geometry.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
13UndatedThe writer must be universal in sympathy and an outcast by nature: only then can he see clearly.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
14UndatedThe writer has little control over personal temperament, none over historical moment, and is only partly in charge of his or her own aesthetic.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
15UndatedThe best life for a writer is the life which helps him write the best books he can.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
16UndatedEverything in art depends on execution: the story of a louse can be as beautiful as the story of Alexander. You must write according to your feelings, be sure those feelings are true, and let everything else go hang. When a line is good it ceases to belong to any school. A line of prose must be as immutable as a line of poetry.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
17UndatedThe better you know someone, the less well you often see them (and the less well they can therefore be transferred into fiction). They may be so close as to be out of focus, and there is no operating novelist to dispel the blur.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
18UndatedIf the writer were more like a reader, he’d be a reader, not a writer. It’s as uncomplicated as that.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
19UndatedWhat is the easiest, the most comfortable thing for a writer to do? To congratulate the society in which he lives: to admire its biceps, applaud its progress, tease it endearingly about its follies.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
20UndatedThe imagination doesn’t crop annually like a reliable fruit tree. The writer has to gather whatever’s there: sometimes too much, sometimes too little, sometimes nothing at all. And in the years of glut there is always a slatted wooden tray in some cool, dark attic, which the writer nervously visits from time to time; and yes, oh dear, while he’s been hard at work downstairs, up in the attic there are puckering skins, warning spots, a sudden brown collapse and the sprouting of snowflakes. What can he do about it?Julian Barnes / quote ↗
21UndatedWell, they each seem to do one thing well enough, but fail to realize that literature depends on doing several things well at the same time.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
22UndatedHe feared me as many men fear women: because their mistresses (or their wives) understand them. They are scarcely adult, some men: they wish women to understand them, and to that end they tell them all their secrets; and then, when they are properly understood, they hate their women for understanding them.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
23UndatedYou get towards the end of life - no, not life itself, but of something else: the end of any likelihood of change in that life. You are allowed a long moment of pause, time enough to ask the question: what else have I done wrong?Julian Barnes / quote ↗
24UndatedAnd yet it takes only the smallest pleasure or pain to teach us time’s malleability.Julian Barnes / quote ↗
