01c. 1960 ADWhen we asked him to sum up his impression of the girls' emotional state at that point, he said, "Buffeted but not broken.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
02c. 1960 ADThey made us participate in their own madness,because we couldn't help but retrace their steps, rethink their thoughts, and see that none of them led to us.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
03c. 1960 ADBut this is all chasing after the wind. The essence of the suicides consisted not of sadness or mystery but simple selfishness. The girls took into their own hands decisions better left to God. They became too powerful to live among us, too self-concerned, too visionary, too blind. What lingered after them was not life, which always overcomes natural death, but the most trivial list of mundane facts: a clock ticking on a wall, a room dim at noon, and the outrageousness of a human being thinking only of herself.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
04c. 1960 ADMaybe the best proof that the language is patriarchal is that it oversimplifies feeling.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
05c. 1960 ADFor our own part, we learned a great deal about the techniques of love, and because we didn't know the words to denote what we saw, we had to make up our own. That was why we spoke of "yodeling in the canyon" and "tying the tube," of "groaning in the pit," "slipping the turtle's head," and "chewing the stinkweed." Years later, when we lost our own virginities, we resorted in our panic to pantomiming Lux's gyrations on the roof so long ago; and even now, if we were to be honest with ourselves, we would have to admit that it is always that pale wraith we make love to, always her feet snagged in the gutter, always her single blooming hand steadying itself against the chimney, no matter what our present lovers' feet and hands are doing.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
06c. 1960 ADDiscussing it later, many of us felt we suffered a mental dislocation at that moment, which only grew worse through the course of the remaining deaths. The prevailing symptom of this state was an inability to recall any sound. Truck doors slammed silently; Lux's mouth screamed silently; and the street, the creaking tree limbs, the streetlight clicking different colors, the electric buzz of the pedestrian crossing box - all these usually clamorous voices hushes, or had begun shrieking at a pitch too high for us to hear, though they sent chills up our spines. Sound returned only once Lux had gone. Televisions erupted with canned laughter. Fathers splashed, soaking aching backs.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
07c. 1960 ADI mean, in the end it wasn't up to me. The big things never are. Birth, I mean, and death. And love. And what love bequeaths to use before we're born.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
08c. 1960 ADIt's often said that a traumatic experience early in life marks a person forever, pulls her out of line, saying, "Stay there. Don't move.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
10c. 1960 ADThe more she thought about it, the more Madeleine understood that extreme solitude didn't just describe the way she was feeling about Leonard. It explained how she'd always felt when she was in love. It explained what love was like and, just maybe, what was wrong with it.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
11c. 1960 ADThe lover`s discourse was of an extreme solitude. The solitude was extreme because it wasn`t physical. It was extreme because you felt it while in the company of the person you loved. It was extreme because it was in your head, the most solitary of places.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
12c. 1960 ADGiven the choice, a yeast cell's ideal state is to be diploid. But if it's in an environment with a lack of nutrients, you know what happens?The diploids break into haploids again. Solitary little haploids. Because, in a crisis, it's easier to survive as a single cell.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
13c. 1960 ADWe realized that the version of the world [our parents] rendered for us was not the world they really believed in, and that for all their caretaking and bitching about crabgrass they didn't give a damn about lawns.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
14c. 1960 ADWe felt the imprisonment of being a girl, the way it made your mind active and dreamy, and how you ended up knowing which colors went together.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
15c. 1960 ADCollege wasn't like the real world. In the real world people dropped names based on their renown. In college, people dropped names based on their obscurity.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
16c. 1960 ADin Detroit, in July of 1967, what happened was no less than a guerrilla uprising.The Second American Revolution.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
17c. 1960 ADThey didn't exchange a single word. But in the weeks that followed, Trip spent his days wandering the halls, hoping for Lux to appear, the most naked person with clothes on he had ever seen. Even in sensible school shoes, she shuffled as though barefoot, and the baggy apparel Mrs. Lisbon bought for her only increased her appeal, as though after undressing she had put on whatever was handy. In corduroys her thighs rubbed together, buzzing, and there was always at least one untidy marvel to unravel him: an untucked shirttail, a sock with a hole, a ripped seam showing underarm hair. She carted her books from class to class but never opened them. Her pens and pencils were as temporary as Cinderella's broom. When she smiled, her mouth showed too many teeth, but at night Trip Fontaine dreamed of being bitten by each one.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
19c. 1960 ADThis was a characteroloical prelude, but it wasn’t chemical or somatic. It was the anatomy of melancholy, not the anatomy of his brain.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
20c. 1960 ADEven our parents seemed to agree more and more with the television version of things, listening to the reporters' inanities as though they could tell us the truth about our own lives.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
21c. 1960 ADListening to Leonard, Madeleine felt impoverished by her happy childhood. She never wondered why she acted the way she did, or what effect her parents had had on her personality. Being fortunate had dulled her powers of observation.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
22c. 1960 ADWe felt the imprisonment of being a girl, the way it made your mind active and dreamy, and how you ended up knowing which colors went together. We knew that the girls were our twins, that we all existed in space like animals with identical skins, and that they knew everything about us though we couldn’t fathom them at all. We knew, finally, that the girls were really women in disguise, that they understood love and even death, and that our job was merely to create the noise that seemed to fascinate them.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
23c. 1960 ADI understood at those times what I was leaving behind: the solidarity of a shared biology. Women know what it means to have a body. They understand its difficulties and frailties, its glories and pleasures. Men think their bodies are theirs alone. They tend them in private, even in public.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗
24c. 1960 ADBut as I peeked at my brother's inert body....I was aware only of what a strange thing it was to be male. Society discriminated against women, no question. But what about the discrimination of being sent war? Which sex was really thought to be expendable.Jeffrey Eugenides / quote ↗