01UndatedWhen we love and respect people, revealing to them their value, they can begin to come out from behind the walls that protect them.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
02UndatedIf we are to grow in love, the prisons of our egoism must be unlocked. This implies suffering, constant effort and repeated choices.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
03UndatedEnvy comes from people’s ignorance of, or lack of belief, in their own gifts.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
04UndatedAn ethics of desire is good news for those of us who have become allergic to an ethics of law.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
05UndatedWe are not called by God to do extraordinary things, but to do ordinary things with extraordinary love.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
06UndatedCommunity is a sign that love is possible in a materialistic world where people so often either ignore or fight each other. It is a sign that we don't need a lot of money to be happy--in fact, the opposite.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
07UndatedOne of the marvelous things about community is that it enables us to welcome and help people in a way we couldn't as individuals. When we pool our strength and share the work and responsibility, we can welcome many people, even those in deep distress, and perhaps help them find self-confidence and inner healing.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
08UndatedCommunity is not an ideal; it is people. It is you and I. In community we are called to love people just as they are with their wounds and their gifts, not as we want them to be.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
09UndatedIn community we are called to care for each member of the community. We can. Choose our friends but we do not choose our brothers and sisters' they are given to us, whether in family or in community." JeanJean Vanier / quote ↗
10UndatedThose who are weak have great difficulty finding their place in our society. The image of the ideal human as powerful and capable disenfranchises the old, the sick, the less-abled. For me, society must, by definition, be inclusive of the needs and gifts of all its members. How can we lay claim to making an open and friendly society where human rights are respected and fostered when, by the values we teach and foster, we systematically exclude segments of our population? I believe that those we most often exclude from the normal life of society, people with disabilities, have profound lessons to teach us. When we do include them, they add richly to our lives and add immensely to our world.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
11UndatedThe poor are always prophetic. As true prophets always point out, they reveal God's design. That is why we should take time to listen to them. And that means staying near them, because they speak quietly and infrequently; they are afraid to speak out, they lack confidence in themselves because they have been broken and oppressed. But if we listen to them, they will bring us back to the essential.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
12UndatedFlowing from this union, source of a plenitude of joy, the love of the couple reveals itself through the daily acceptance of the limits and faults of each other and in mutual openness. It is this acceptance in and through gentleness, kindness, forgiveness, confidence and the desire to see shining in the other the warm light of the Spirit of God that becomes the great sign of the merciful love of God for man and His incessant forgiveness.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
13UndatedI am convinced that in the present time, in spite of the difficulties man has to meet another in a state of oblation, communion and gift of self, there are latent hidden forces in him which can be awakened in order to enable him to discover and live this reality of love and fidelity. In order to really penetrate into this mystery of the union of the couple, it is essential that each one acquire an interior maturity, a maturity that is perhaps rare. I would add that in order to be truly united and to remain truly faithful to one another, the couple must listen and be open to the Spirit of God who has reserved for Himself the science of the heart. The heart of man is satisfied only by the Infinite and to discover this Infinite in union he must open himself to the Spirit of God, a spirit of giving, of receiving. The union between the two spouses can thus deepen to such an extent that they enter in a mystical manner into the very life of God Himself.Jean Vanier / quote ↗
