01c. 1980 ADWell, that brings us to the point: There is only one way to protect ourselves from the deadly diseases that stalk the human family. It is abstinence before marriage, then marriage and mutual fidelity for life to an uninfected partner.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
02c. 1980 ADRemember that pornography is dangerous. It can warp the mind and destroy sexual intimacy in marriage. Stay away from it. A monster is crouched behind that door.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
03c. 1980 ADLearning how to fight properly and deciding what to fight about are two of the secrets to a successful marriage. It usually comes down to the "line of respect" one way or the other.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
04c. 1980 ADDr. Morris soon recognized that the difference between successful and unsuccessful marriages can often be traced to how well couples are able to "bond" during the courtship period. By bonding he referred to the process by which a man and woman become cemented together emotionally. It describes the chemistry that permits two previous strangers to become intensely valuable to one another. It helps them weather the storms of life and remain committed in sickness and health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse, forsaking all others until they are parted in death. It is a phenomenal experience that almost defies description.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
05c. 1980 ADIf we can prevent just one marriage from disintegrating--or just one child from suffering the loss of a family--our effort will be justified.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
06c. 1980 AD33. Satan will attempt to offer you whatever you hunger for, whether it be money, power, sex, or prestige. But Jesus said, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness” (Matthew 5:6).James C. Dobson / quote ↗
07c. 1980 ADUntil we know who we are and why we are here, no amount of success, fame, money, or pleasure will provide much satisfaction.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
08c. 1980 AD15. “The love of money is the root of all evil” (1Timothy 6:10, KJV). That’s why Jesus issues more warnings about materialism and wealth than any other sin. Obviously, it takes a steady hand to hold a full cup.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
09c. 1980 ADWhen you understand that everything you buy is purchased with a portion of your life, it should make you more careful with the use of money.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
10c. 1980 ADHe sees those tears in your eyes. He knows the desire of your heart. And you will hear from Him-just in time to take the next step.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
11c. 1980 AD26. Don’t marry someone with intolerable characteristics in the hopes of changing him or her. If you can’t live with someone who drinks or someone who isn’t a Christian or someone who isn’t clean, then don’t marry that kind of person. The chances for miraculous improvements or changes in behavior are slim. What you see is what you get!James C. Dobson / quote ↗
12c. 1980 ADWell, there is no sin in being gay. The immorality comes from engaging in forbidden behavior. Therefore, the Christian homosexual is in the same situation as the unmarried heterosexual. He (or she) is expected to control his or her lusts and live a holy life. I know this is a tough position to take, and some will argue with it. But I stand on the authority of Scripture, and I have no license to edit it.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
13c. 1980 ADWhether right or wrong, it is my belief that Christian colleges place their emphasis not on that which divides us, but on the substance that binds us together. That commonality is the gospel of Jesus Christ. He commanded us to love one another—to set aside our differences and to care for “the least of these” among us. It is our unity, not our diversity, that deserves our allegiance.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
14c. 1980 ADThere is no indication that God explained to Joseph what He was doing through those many years of heartache or how the pieces would eventually fit together. He had no ways of knowing that he would eventually enjoy a triumphal reunion with his family. He was expected, as you and I are, to live out his life one day at a time in something less than complete understanding. What pleased God was Joseph’s faithfulness when nothing made sense.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
15c. 1980 ADThe family was God's idea, not our own, and it is still a wonderful institution.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
16c. 1980 ADDespite their depressing circumstances, the Hernandez family had a certain dignity and strength about them. They were Christians, and they taught their children that God loved them and had a plan for their lives. Their little boy, David, internalized that message of hope. He never thought of himself as a victim even though he had every reason to feel cheated. His family was at the bottom of the social ladder without even a house to live in, but his worth as an individual was rooted in his faith.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
17c. 1980 ADJust continue to "walk in the light" you have been given, and leave the future in God's hands. If He is calling you to do a job, He will make it possible for you to care for your family and overcome any other barriers to that responsibility.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
18c. 1980 ADOne of the most breathtaking concepts in all of Scripture is the revelation that God knows each of us personally and that we are in His mind both day and night. There is simply no way to comprehend the full implications of His love by the King of kings and Lord of lords. He is all-powerful and all-knowing, majestic and holy, from everlasting to everlasting. Why would He care about us—about our needs, our welfare, our fears? We have been discussing situations in which God doesn’t make sense. His concern for us mere mortals is the most inexplicable of all.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
19c. 1980 ADTo have been possessed by something so awful and so alien, and then the next morning wake up from it, remember what happened, and realize what I had done, with a clear mind and all my essential moral and ethical feelings intact at that moment, [I was] absolutely horrified that I was capable of doing something like that.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
20c. 1980 AD16. Christians should never consult astrologers, psychics, or those who practice witchcraft (see Isaiah 47:13-14). They are usually phonies who only pretend to have extrasensory powers. But in some cases, they are working in cooperation with Satan. Rather than tamper with this evil world, the one true God wants us to bring our needs, problems, and decisions to Him. He has promised to lead us into all truth (see John 8:32).James C. Dobson / quote ↗
21c. 1980 ADAnd I pray that the pieces of her broken world will come back together.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
22c. 1980 ADSin has invaded God's creation, and we live now in a fallen world.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
23c. 1980 ADDiversity, rather than cohesiveness, is the new passion, and it pits us against each other for “rights.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
24c. 1980 AD14. God created two sexes, male and female. They are equal in worth, although each is unique and different. It is not only impossible to blend maleness and femaleness into a single sex (unisex), it is dangerous to even attempt it.James C. Dobson / quote ↗
