01c. 1969 ADWe are all just beginners here, and we shall all die beginners.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
02c. 1969 ADI was doing something I'd never done before. And what will I be able to do tomorrow that I cannot yet do today?Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
04c. 1969 ADThe Yogic sages say that all the pain of a human life is caused by words, as is all the joy. We create words to define our experience and those words bring attendant emotions that jerk us around like dogs on a leash. We get seduced by our own mantras (I'm a failure... I'm lonely... I'm a failure... I'm lonely...) and we become monuments to them. To stop talking for a while, then, is to attempt to strip away the power of words, to stop choking ourselves with words, to liberate ourselves from our suffocating mantras.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
05c. 1969 ADDepression on my left, Loneliness on my right. They don't need to show me thier badges. I know these guys very well.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
06c. 1969 ADI remember asking myself one night, while I was curled up in the same old corner of my same old couch in tears yet again over the same old repetition of sorrowful thoughts, 'Is there ANYTHING about this scene you can change, Liz?' And all I could think to do was stand up, whle still sobbing, and try to balance on one foot in the middle of the living room. Just to prove that - while I couldn't stop the tears or change my dismal interior dialogue - I was not yet totally out of control: at least I could cry hysterically while balanced on one foot.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
07c. 1969 ADBut he [Depression] just gives me that dark smile, settles into my favorite chair, puts his feet on my table and lights a cigar, filling the place with his awful smoke. Loneliness watches and sighs, then climbs into my bed and pulls the covers over himself, fully dressed, shoes and all. He's going to make me sleep with him again tonight, I just know it.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
08c. 1969 ADI'm here. I love you. I don't care if you need to stay up crying all night long, I will stay with you. If you need the medication again, go ahead and take it - I will love you through that, as well. If you don't need the medication, I will love you, too. There's nothing you can ever do to lose my love. I will protect you until you die, and after your death I will still protect you. I am stronger than Depression and I am braver than Loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
09c. 1969 ADWhen you're lost in those woods, it sometimes takes you a while to realize that you are lost. For the longest time, you can convince yourself that you've just wandered a few feet off the path, that you'll find your way back to the trailhead any moment now. Then night falls again and again, and you still have no idea where you are, and it's time to admit that you have bewildered yourself so far off the path that you don't even know from which direction the sun rises anymore.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
10c. 1969 ADWhere did you get the idea you aren't allowed to petition the universe with prayer? You are part of this universe, Liz. You're a constituent--you have every entitlement to participate in the actions of the universe, and to let your feelings be known. So, put your opinion out there. Make your case. Believe me--it will at least be taken into consideration.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
11c. 1969 ADBut the very fact that this world is so challenging is exactly why you sometimes must reach out of its jurisdiction for help, appealing to a higher authority in order to find your comfort.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
12c. 1969 AD... most of my prayers are expressions of sheer gratitude for the fullness of my contentment.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
13c. 1969 ADI filled the song with everything I wished I could teach him about life. I tried to reassure him with every line about how the world is hard and unfair sometimes, but that it's all OK beacuse he is so loved. He is surrounded by souls who would do anything to help him. And not only that- he has wisdom and patience of his own, buried deep inside his being, which will only reveal themselves over time and will always carry him through any trial. He is a gift from God to all of us.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
14c. 1969 ADNothing is so essential as dignity…Time will reveal who has it and who has it not.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
15c. 1969 ADI'd learned enough from life's experiences to understand that destiny's interventions can sometimes be read as invitation for us to address and even surmount our biggest fears. It doesn't take a great genius to recognize that when you are pushed by circumstance to do the one thing you have always most specifically loathed and feared, this can be, at the very least, an interesting growth opportunity.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
16c. 1969 ADLiz, you must be very polite with yourself when you are learning something new.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
17c. 1969 ADHe lived in sight of both worlds, but he looked toward the unknown. And he was a scholar.... You can still live on that shimmering line between your old thinking and your new understanding, always in a state of learning. In the figurative sense, this is a border that is always moving-- as you advance forward in your studies and realizations, that mysterious forest of the unknown always stays a few feet ahead of you, so you have to travel light in order to keep following it. You have to stay mobile, movable, supple.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
18c. 1969 ADAt no moment in history has a bright young girl with plenty of food and a good constitution perished from too much learning.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
19c. 1969 ADTo meditate, only you must smile. Smile with face, smile with mind, and good energy will come and clean away dirty energy. Even smile in your liver.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
20c. 1969 ADThe Indians around here tell a cautionary fable about a great saint who was always surrounded in his Ashram by loyal devotees. For hours a day, the saint and his followers would meditate on God. The only problem was that the saint had a young cat, an annoying creature, who used to walk through the temple meowing and purring and bothering everyone during meditation. So the saint, in all his practical wisdom, commanded that the cat be tied to a pole outside for a few hours a day, only during meditation, so as to not disturb anyone. This became a habit – tying the cat to the pole and then meditating on God – but as years passed, the habit hardened into religious ritual. Nobody could meditate unless the cat was tied to the pole first. Then one day the cat died. The saint's followers were panic-stricken. It was a major religious crisis – how could they meditate now, without a cat to tie to a pole? How would they reach God? In their minds, the cat had become the means.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
21c. 1969 ADTo meditate, only you must smile. Smile with face, smile with mind, and good energy will come to you and clean away dirty energy.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
22c. 1969 ADWe had more fun waiting in line together at the Department of Motor Vehicles than most couples have on their honeymoons. We gave each other same nickname, so there would be no separation between us. We made goals, vows, promises and dinner together. He read books to me...Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
23c. 1969 ADOffer it up personally,then. Right now. I thought of how many people go to their graves unforgiven and unforgiving. I thought of how many people have had siblings or friends or children or lovers disappear from their lives before precious words of clemency or absolution could be passed along. How do the survivors of terminated relationships ever endure the pain of unfinished business? From that place of meditation, I found the answer-you can finish the business yourself, from within yourself. It's not only possible, it's essential.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗
24c. 1969 ADSomeday you're gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You'll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing and you were in the best possible place in the world for it - in a beautiful place of worship, surrounded by grace. Take this time, every minute of it. Let things work themselves out here in India.Elizabeth Gilbert / quote ↗