01UndatedYour life paradigm is the set ofbeliefs or operating system for yourlife. Make sure you choose one thatsupports lifelong happiness.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
02UndatedRegardless of your upbringing orformative experiences, it is never toolate to start believing in yourself.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
03UndatedExamine your self-talk.Never speak to yourselfmore harshly than you wouldto a small child.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
04UndatedThe happiest, most successfulpeople believe in themselvesunconditionally. They knowthey can do, be and have allthat they want in life.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
05UndatedDon’t depend on others tofuel your self-belief.Develop your self-belief so thatit becomes self-sustaining.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
06UndatedWhen you believe in yourselfit is easier not to takecriticism, knock-backs anddisappointments personallyDomonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
07UndatedWhen someone else doesn’t believein you or your dreams, rememberit’s about them, not you.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
08UndatedLet go of the idea of winningor losing. In the game of life,the most important thingis just showing upand doing your best.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
09UndatedYou only have one life.Make sure that yours isone you are happyto be living.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
10UndatedPerfectionism is a lost cause.Focus your energy on beingthe best you can be.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
11UndatedTrue happiness is a state of being,not one of doing or having.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
12UndatedFocus on what matters.Honour your valuesand make decisionsthat are aligned with them.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
13UndatedWhen you make a choice,acknowledge all the consequences.That way you won’t be leftfeeling compromised.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
14UndatedThere is no such thingas ‘no choice’. There arealways other options.Explore yours.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
15UndatedSelf-pity never leads to happiness.Remind yourself that the situationmay not be ideal, but it’s rarely theworst that could ever happen.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
16UndatedDon’t sabotage yourchance for happiness.Own up to the real choicesyou are making.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
18UndatedSo many of life’s eventualitiesare beyond your control.Work out what things you caninfluence and come to a peacefulacceptance of the rest.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
19UndatedChoose your battles wisely.Unless you have a very highchance of victory, spare yourenergy and walk awayDomonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
20UndatedDon’t be attached to outcomes.Enjoy your experiences for whatthey are, what you have gainedand what you have learned.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
21UndatedUnless you have a crystal ballyou don’t know how thefuture is going to unfold.Focus on the things you caninfluence and don’t fretover the rest.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
22UndatedNo matter how much youcare about someone,you can’t take responsibilityfor their happiness.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
23UndatedYou can’t make someonedo something just becauseyou want them to.What you do have, however,is the opportunity toinfluence their choices.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗
24UndatedBeing a control freakis a sign of a vulnerableself-esteem. The betteryou feel about yourselfthe less you need to controleverything around you.Domonique Bertolucci / quote ↗