01UndatedTrue love, the good, beautiful, one-and-only kind, the kind between loving friends and family and partners who are mostly just trying hard to do their best, it manages to overlook some pieces of its story. It overlooks what he can’t give you or how she failed you or what mistakes he made when he was struggling. It stays steady at its center. It evolves, through drought and storm. It grows. It survives.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
03UndatedMost of our parents wanted the best for us, I knew, but we also wanted the best for them.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
04UndatedAn untold story has a weight that can submerge you, sure as a sunken ship at the bottom of the ocean. I learned that. This kind of story, this kind of things kept secrets -they have the power to keep your head in forever, and most of all for yourself.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
05UndatedYou've got to say what you mean and mean what you say...Doubt in your voice is an open door people will shove right through.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
06UndatedWe should have the right to have someone leave when we want, to only allow those in who we want in. But the truth is, people can force their way into your life whenever they choose. If they want to remind you forevermore that they exist, they will. They can reappear in a card or call or a "chance" meeting, they can remember your birthday or the day you met with some innocuous small note. No matter how little they matter in your new life, they can insist on being seen and recognized and remembered.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
07UndatedThe word just hangs, until Severin starts the blender and there's only the sound of crunching and grinding vitamins, the silvery core of nourishment, containing every essential thing but the nourishment itself." (pg. 82)Deb Caletti / quote ↗
08UndatedIf letting go, if letting people and things work themselves out in the way that they needed to without your help was the most important thing, then it was also the hardest.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
09UndatedSometimes you're sure dogs have some secret, superior intelligence, and other times you know they're only their simple, goofy selves.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
10UndatedIt was strange to have those papers signed. Like any big project or crisis that takes every waking and non-waking moment in your life, it was odd to have it concluded. A move, a college degree, a wedding--something long-strived-for is completed, whatever the outcome, and there is a huge space where it all once was. All that open time now, and a continuing nagging sense that there's something you need to be doing.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
11UndatedWe were right to come here, if only because the ocean reminded you that impossible things were possible. Miles and miles of the deepest waters that moved like clockwork were possible. Creatures like jellyfish and sea urchins were, too. Millions and jillions of the tiniest grains of sand to form one long, soft beach—yep, even that was possible.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
12UndatedYou have the ability to just go on and forget people and how much they are meant, but I don't. You can people in their own little boxes and leave them there. So much for love. So much for soul mates. I'm sorry you don't want to believe the best or how I can change. You put a stake through the heart. I'm the only one who cared enough to suffer like this.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
14UndatedIt can be exhausting eating a meal cooked by a man. With a woman, it's, Ho hum, pass the beans. A guy, you have to act like he just built the Taj Mahal.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
16UndatedIt was about the way a moment, a single moment, could change things and make you decide to try to be someone different.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
17UndatedI was like a chocolate in a box, looking well behaved and perfect in place, all the while harboring a secret center.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
18UndatedYou can hold a secret, hold it so far in that it drives nearly every thought and every move you make- your very heartbeat, almost.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
20UndatedIf happiness shouldn't make you so miserable, misery shouldn't make you so happy.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
21UndatedLife and our love for others is a balancing act, I understand then; a dance between our instinct to be safe and hold fast, and our drive to flee, to run - from danger, toward new places to feed ourselves.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
22UndatedI thought about him everyday until then. I started having these conversations with him in my head that you have when you meet someone you sense is going to be important in your life.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
23UndatedMy most memorable teacher was Rich Campe, my third-grade teacher at Fairlands Elementary in Pleasanton, California.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
24UndatedBliss is the ocean, a towel on the sand, the sun out, the chance to swim in waves or walk dragging a stick behind you, a good book, a cold drink.Deb Caletti / quote ↗
